Are you shy about your body ,do you have sex with the lights on or off, why/why not?

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Are you shy about your body ,do you have sex with the lights on or off, why/why not?

LadieWithSwagg LadieWithSwagg
checking insecurities when it comes to being naked
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body of a nude beach goddess here!!!!
Brandi Rouxxx , married with children , Wondermom , GravyCakes , sexyintexas , indiglo , ac0313 , Judas Iscars , Rhinobaby , wdanas , gsfanatic , Supervixen
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are you kidding the t -shirt stays on!!!
AOutrajus , Iron Man , Upyourreviews , ghalik , meezerosity
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My lover's mind is so occupied its not a issue
MaryExy , Mell , Coralbell , SamsDelight , darthkitt3n , sixfootsex , Howells , padmeamidala , YoungSpunkyLove , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , K101 , salaciousrex , bunny love , Eva Schwaltz , Lio , slynch , kelaaa33wish , lolsos , Collodion , LavenderSkies , thisisadeletedaccount , Ice1 , ghalik , Mistress Sassy , potstickers , SecretKinksters , ellieprobable
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Total votes: 44 (43 voters)
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04/30/2011
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MaryExy MaryExy
I have some parts of my body that I'm proud of, some not. But seriously, if my guy had a problem with my body, we wouldn't be together.
04/30/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
I can be insecure about my body if I'm going to the beach or something, but I rarely worry about it during sex. I'm busy focusing on other things, and clearly he thinks I'm attractive or we wouldn't be having sex in the first place.
04/30/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
I wouldn't say goddess, but I'm not too damn shabby, lol...
04/30/2011
Curves Curves
I am comfortable being completely naked during sex. I feel uncomfortable clothed at all, haha.
05/01/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I'm really shy. I have sexy cleavage shirts and mini skirts and I won't wear them bcs I'm afraid of the negative attention it will bring to me.

I am totally comfortable with my body aloen with my partner or with friends at the beach but not as much as when I wear sexy lingerie for my lover.
05/01/2011
Taylor Taylor
Every once in a while I have a bad body image day and will aask that we leave the lights off. Most of the time I'm fine with either low light or all the lights on
05/01/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by LadieWithSwagg
checking insecurities when it comes to being naked
I'm not too shy about my body with my Master. We've been together for almost 15 years and he's seen everything so it doesn't phase me to be naked around him. I get more shy around new partners (I'm poly) so sometimes it might take me a while to get completely naked around them.
05/01/2011
YoungSpunkyLove YoungSpunkyLove
Lights on/off, doesn't matter. I know my partner loves and accepts me how I am, likewise I, him.

Besides, my body's not the same 'cause of our kids... so his fault too
05/01/2011
Wondermom Wondermom
I might not look like I belong on the cover of sports illustrated, I am proud of my shape and I know my partner finds me sexy. We have never been intimate with the lights off, I like being able to see him and him see me.
05/02/2011
K101 K101
I'm very weird about my body. I always think it's not good enough, but we still do it with lights on only! He would not have it any other way and it makes me feel good that he wants to see me.

I'm usually a little shy at first and every time he tells me how beautiful he thinks I am & when he catches me covering my stomach or chest he tells me I shouldn't hide it. I'm very lucky to have someone who does want to see me and I loosen up after hearing him tell me so the insecurities go away quickly.
05/02/2011
salaciousrex salaciousrex
I definitely don't have a perfect body, but I can't change some parts, like my stretchmarks and such, so there's no reason for me to ALWAYS be so self concious! It depends if the lights are already on or off when the mood strikes if we have sex in the light or dark I try not to let that kind of stuff have an affect on the mood, otherwise I'd get WAY to distracted
05/02/2011
bunny love bunny love
I don't think that I have the greatest body ever, but I really don't care. Nothing is going to certain aspects of my body. Other things can be changed with a little bit of exercise.

My body image does not affect my sex life. My boyfriend and I have sex with the lights on 99% of the time. We have sex with the lights off if we're having clandestine sex, we woke up in the middle of the night feeling frisky, or if we're just too lazy to turn the lights on.
05/02/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
Quote:
Originally posted by LadieWithSwagg
checking insecurities when it comes to being naked
i'm weird about how i feel. a lot of the time, i'm not happy w/ the way my body looks naked, but when i'm w/ my bf, my mood changes & i feel sexier than i did earlier that day. idk, maybe it's b/c my guy loves my body & always thinks i'm sexy. it does help.
05/05/2011
sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by LadieWithSwagg
checking insecurities when it comes to being naked
No I dont really have the body of a nude beach goddess but I have known my man for 20 years and he still tells me every day how much he loves everything about me. We have both physically changed a lot over the years but are very comfortable in our skin around eachother.
05/05/2011
indiglo indiglo
I'm super comfortable being totally naked with my partner. I really do love my body, it's pretty damn hot. Plus he loves every inch of me so that makes it easy too!
05/05/2011
AOutrajus AOutrajus
i like the lights to be off mostly so i can focus on how it feels. i really dont care about the visual things.
05/05/2011
ac0313 ac0313
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Originally posted by indiglo
I'm super comfortable being totally naked with my partner. I really do love my body, it's pretty damn hot. Plus he loves every inch of me so that makes it easy too!
My gf and I feel the same way! Well, actually about her body and mine...haven't met you yet to render an opinion! I'm sure you are correct about your self-assesment, however!
05/06/2011
Collodion Collodion
I happen to really enjoy sex with the lights on - I have almost no qualms about my body type or imperfections...none of my SOs have complained about it, so I'm guessing it's okay. *laughs*

Sometimes, though, I get the hankering for the sensory-deprivation of lights-off sex, but it's normally not out of shyness...I guess I just feel as though my sex-partner is with me because they find me attractive, and I shouldn't deprive either of us of the chance to watch.
05/06/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by LadieWithSwagg
checking insecurities when it comes to being naked
Lights on, not shy
12/04/2011
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I can be shy, but I work through it. I like sex with the lights on, I'm a very visual person, but sometimes off is nice because we live in college dorms with really bright fluorescent strips and I don't like the glare.
06/06/2012
Iron Man Iron Man
I prefer the lights off. I really don't like my body - I'm kind of dysphoric about it ( not just gender, other things too ) so I try to never look at it :/

My partner thinks I'm hot shit, though. I say they're blind, lol.
06/06/2012
Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
It's the rare man I get naked for, but no t-shirts...I have lingerie that makes it so my good parts are naked, but the rest is covered!
06/09/2012
Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
Oh and lights off, but candles lit! Or the always hip lava lamp (stop laughing!)! My lava lamp is pink and emits a soft pink glow that I think makes my room look sexy!
06/09/2012
meezerosity meezerosity
I'm very uncomfortable with my body, I prefer lights off or very low lighting.
06/10/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
I'm quite comfortable, and I enjoy being able to see my partner, so lights on
10/03/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
I'm very comfortable with my body--in fact, I love my body. And he makes me feel nothing but beautiful, so it's all good.

Lights on or with dim lighting (for the mood)--I'm pretty visual, so I like being able to see everything--unless I'm blindfolded, of course.
10/03/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We are both very comfortable in our bodies, no problem walking around the house naked...which happens daily.
10/03/2012
ellieprobable ellieprobable
Lights on unless they happen to already be off. I'm naked almost all the time anyway.
10/03/2012
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