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lezergirl lezergirl
What do you consider an automatic turn off in a relationship?
02/02/2011
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Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Quote:
Originally posted by lezergirl
What do you consider an automatic turn off in a relationship?
Many things. Uncleanliness and narrow-mindedness top the list though.
02/03/2011
Envy Envy
Drug and alcohol addictions, sexism, abusive personality, etc.
02/03/2011
Alura Une Alura Une
Haven't been there too much. Thinking of a few experiences from the past and seeing others' sad relationships--substan ce abuse, lying, lack of interest in personal hygiene, lack of sensitivity, putting oneself first, always prioritizing parents and bros, no interest in learning, black and white thinking.
02/03/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
Unhygienic, dead sex drive, abusive, shuts me out emotionally, disrespective.

But I also don't like a guy who shows too much interest too soon or is TOO kind (as in can't do enough to 'serve' me) - repulsive!
02/04/2011
teeny <3 teeny <3
Rape jokes (and casual use of the term for that matter) are definite turn offs for me. If you leave a class and say "that test raped me" or you're playing a pick up game of basketball and tell your friends "we're gonna rape you!" I'll be concerned. Forcibly penetrating someone should never be funny in my book.
02/21/2011
Ajax Ajax
I went out a few times with a guy who was about 10 years older than me and every time we were out he'd point out our age difference about 100 different times throughout the night. He made such a big deal about it (he was stoked not concerned) and it just creeped me out. I had to end that pretty quickly.
02/21/2011
Fellicity Fellicity
Quote:
Originally posted by lezergirl
What do you consider an automatic turn off in a relationship?
Over-confidence and enjoys primping and preening more than I do... it's not attractive to me in a guy, and I've learned tends to mask deeper self-esteem issues.

That, and bad grooming and bad breath. ;-)
02/25/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
Drug and alcohol addictions, sexism, abusive personality, etc.
Same here.
02/25/2011
Eden C. Eden C.
Damn, I just started the same discussion before I saw this. Sorry!
02/26/2011
clp clp
Quote:
Originally posted by teeny <3
Rape jokes (and casual use of the term for that matter) are definite turn offs for me. If you leave a class and say "that test raped me" or you're playing a pick up game of basketball and tell your friends "we're gonna rape ...
Definitely. I never thought that would need clarifying, particularly after I told this guy I was assaulted... :\
02/26/2011
namelesschaos namelesschaos
Smoking, my father is dieing of lung cancer in the room next to me and I'm his primary caregiver. The thought of going through this again is the last thing I want going through my head.
02/26/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
A guy with "perfect" hair and clothes. I like rugged "manly men" and men who are too into hair products and clothes kind of turn me off. There's nothing wrong with guys like these. But, I choose not to date them.

Also, guys who ramble on about subjects I don't really care about and who dismiss what I am saying so they can get to the next thought about their car, or their favorite band (in too much detail) or the intimacies of their job. UG.

A guy with no sense of humor.

A man who would be offended by a woman with a strong sex drive. That would kill it for me.

Also, guys who go on about their "buds" for hours. You are with me, leave your buds where you left them. An occasional funny story is one thing, but guys who go on about their "boys" like I know their friends and like them drive me crazy. Double if a guy goes on about his ex. I'll make an excuse to leave. Boy, you need to get over her or shut up about her before dating. NO woman wants to hear what a "Crazy" woman your ex was. Why are the Exes always "crazy?"
02/26/2011
Spring Spring
Freeloaders! Guys who don't have any ambition in life. I don't care what job they have as long as they want to make something of themselves and not live of their woman.
03/17/2011
DancerLove DancerLove
Oh my husband does a lot of things (when we are aroused) that turns me off right away. He is 23 but acts like he is 12. He thinks that everything has to be playful and funny and not any romantic stuff or intimacy or any of that crap he says. He thinks its just for movies and that it doesnt exist.
03/17/2011
Curves Curves
an unhealthy person is a real turn-off for me.
04/03/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
arrogance
04/14/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Addictions, treating others like crap, hypocritical behaviors and not caring about others.
04/14/2011
K101 K101
The number one thing that immediately turns me off is a man who is pushy, and unkind to others. If I see a man being rude or hurt someone's feelings or anything like that, I automatically dislike him. I also don't like the arrogant thing. That's a turn off. Or someone who lies, especially to impress me. That just pisses me off.
04/16/2011
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