Is it cheating on you if he sleeps with someone else but says he's in love with you, even though you've split up?

edeneve edeneve
is it cheating if he fucks other people when he's in love with you yet you're split up?

is having a commitment the only condition under which cheating falls?
09/22/2013
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Taylor Taylor
I would say it's not cheating, but maybe I don't understand the entire context.
09/22/2013
Sincerely Yours, N Sincerely Yours, N
I don't see how it's cheating if you're not committed. There's not much to cheat "on" if you're single - that's why some people take breaks in relationships just to see other people.
09/23/2013
Bubba29 Bubba29
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Originally posted by edeneve
is it cheating if he fucks other people when he's in love with you yet you're split up?

is having a commitment the only condition under which cheating falls?
No, split up = sex with anyone you please.
09/23/2013
Ansley Ansley
I don't think so. If you're split up, then there's no boundaries being crossed. You can't dictate what someone else does when they aren't in a relationship with you. However, it does show a lack of respect IF the two of you were talking about getting back together or working on your issues to get back together.
09/23/2013
peppermintgal peppermintgal
Not cheating since you were broken up.
09/23/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
is it cheating if he fucks other people when he's in love with you yet you're split up?

is having a commitment the only condition under which cheating falls?
By definition if you are not officially in a relationship he is free to be with whomever he wants without penalty...but then again you are not obligated to get back together with him either. It's not cheating but it's certainly not attractive to many women to have a guy replace her just as soon as she turns away.
09/23/2013
Lioncub Lioncub
I agree if you have mutually split then he has every right to be with someone else. Only cheating when there's a relationship of some sort.
09/23/2013
edeneve edeneve
maybe I didn't make the question clear.

he is in love w/ you.

he has made the choice to pull away while you haven't agreed to a mutual split.

if someone is in love w/ you, is it cheating if he fucks other people. is a commitment the only thing that qualifies this situation as cheating? what is to be said about him being in love w/ you?
09/23/2013
Happy Kupple Happy Kupple
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
maybe I didn't make the question clear.

he is in love w/ you.

he has made the choice to pull away while you haven't agreed to a mutual split.

if someone is in love w/ you, is it cheating if he fucks other people. is a ... More
He's not "in love" with you if he is cheating!
09/24/2013
Happy Kupple Happy Kupple
Hubby and I had been together (not married yet) for almost a year. We broke up for three months. I had a relationship with a man during that time. I realized that this relationship was purely a physical thing, ended it and went back to my future husband. I/we don't consider those three months as cheating, as we were broke up. Neither was his "playing". That was over eight years ago. Now it would be cheating to do something like that and neither of us would ever consider it!
09/24/2013
shorejen9 shorejen9
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
maybe I didn't make the question clear.

he is in love w/ you.

he has made the choice to pull away while you haven't agreed to a mutual split.

if someone is in love w/ you, is it cheating if he fucks other people. is a ... More
If he's in love with you then he wouldn't have split and he wouldn't be with other women without your approval(monogamy doesn't work for everyone but it has to be okay with all involved and that isn't what's happening here).

He isn't cheating but he isn't showing he loves you either IMO.
09/25/2013
Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
I do not consider it cheating if you were broken up. Once you break up there is no longer a commitment.
09/25/2013
imperialyellowdragon imperialyellowdragon
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Originally posted by Taylor
I would say it's not cheating, but maybe I don't understand the entire context.
I think you got it. no he is not cheating on you. its over. move on. is he in love with you or are you just telling yourself this. right. its over. taylor your right. that person needs to wake up. it sounds like the person has not gotten the hint. there are so many wonderful and respectful people out there. people who are responsible and mature. don't be scared to break up. this person is.
11/16/2013
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