Couples and social sites...

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Couples and social sites...

CaliGirl CaliGirl
Is it odd if a couple isn't friends on social websites? For example Facebook?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
28  (68%)
No
9  (22%)
Other....Explain
4  (10%)
Total votes: 41
Poll is closed
10/22/2012
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Ansley Ansley
I think so...maybe I'm just all codependent like that.
10/22/2012
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
I don't think it is either odd or not odd. It may be that the couple more or less live separate lives except for when they are physically together, or that they just have different circles of friends. Or, they may find it unnecessary.

That being said, when my husband had a facebook account, we were facebook friends. I guess it depends on the couple. Personally, I'd be suspicious if my spouse didn't want me to see their facebook page.
10/22/2012
Lioncub Lioncub
I don't think it's odd, that could be their one venting outlet.
10/22/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
If my spouse had one and did not add me to it I would find it a little odd. In a way I am glad he is not on any network sites. I don't have to stress about anything.
10/22/2012
Andrey2052 Andrey2052
Yes
10/22/2012
LaSchwartz LaSchwartz
yes but if its something like they don't have one or only use it once a month its not that big of a deal.
10/22/2012
ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I think it is a little weird. Depends on what the reason is though.
10/22/2012
panthercat23 panthercat23
It could be but it's not something I think about. They may have a reason for doing it that way.
10/22/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I don't see why you wouldn't be. If you're in a long-term relationship, then why would you not be friends? I'd be suspicious if my partner/spouse didn't want to share social media.
10/22/2012
Kissy Kissy
I don't like it. I want to usually talk to one person out of the two, not them both.
10/22/2012
CaliGirl CaliGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
I think it is a little weird. Depends on what the reason is though.
His crazy ex would constantly go through his and question him on stuff. He just thinks that it makes for problems. Idk it pisses me off. I'm insecure like that I guess.
10/23/2012
Gdom Gdom
If both are on the site and aren't friends, then yeah, there's something a little odd about that (although there might be good reasons in some cases, I suppose). If one or the other person (or both) isn't on any social networking sites though, that's obviously a not-so-weird explanation (beyond the weirdness of not doing social networking these days).
10/23/2012
Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
A bit odd. My wife and I were facebook friends before we started dating.
10/23/2012
indiglo indiglo
We don't do social network sites like FB or Twitter... but there are a few sites where we are both members. We're friends on all those that have a friending option.
10/23/2012
mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
Well the one time I wasn't friends with the guy I dated on Facebook, he cheated on me...and I found out because he had ANOTHER girlfriend according to facebook
10/24/2012
AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
We both have FB accounts and it simply never occurred to us to friend each other. We only became FB friends after several people asked us why we weren't friends.
10/26/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I think it would be a little strange.
10/26/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
i think so lol
12/08/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
An actual couple, yes. It would be very strange. F-Buddies etc, prob not so much.
12/08/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
It definitely is
12/08/2012
Vaginas Vaginas
seems shifty
12/08/2012
closed account closed account
since all of my online stuff is connected to my blog, eden, and other things of sexual nature, i would have no issue with an SO not being linked to me. it's just not always appropriate cuz of fam, etc. i also think it's fine if someone wants some privacy online.
12/10/2012
TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by CaliGirl
Is it odd if a couple isn't friends on social websites? For example Facebook?
Yes
12/17/2012
Total posts: 24
Unique posters: 23