y'know, i myself have recently been wondering.. WTF is up with human beans supposedly being 'social animals?'
if so, then why are relationships SO FUCKING HARD?
i mean. i have a hard time getting along with alot of people, at least on all levels, or even most. quite a few people i tolerate because i have to due to work settings, or just avoid because i can. maybe i'm anti-social. but i still think we're not that sociable of animals. its too hard.
i know when i started dating again i was dreading the whole tedious 'getting to know eachother' period.
but when you meet someone you click with, it just comes naturally. you wont even realize you're building up your relationship via sharing secrets and exposing your inner self as you would to a good friend. you'll just do it.
good luck with the end of the current. three years! fuck sake. that is SO hard to leave. or at least it was for me in the same 3 yr relationship boat.