Did you always find your partner attractive?

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Did you always find your partner attractive?

lilly555 lilly555
When I first met my partner I wasn't physically attracted to them at all. But now I think he is pretty much the sexiest man. Has anyone else ever had this kind of change of heart?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I've always found them attractive
39  (63%)
I wasn't always attracted to them
17  (27%)
Looks don't matter
3  (5%)
Other
3  (5%)
Total votes: 62
Poll is closed
10/29/2011
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sktb0007 sktb0007
I found my partner physically attractive when we met, and then once I got to know him, I found his personality just as attractive : )
10/29/2011
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Pictures don't do anybody justice (the disadvantage of using a dating site), so I was (shallow in) skipping over Master's profile for a while ... even though I knew his screen name was a nod to him being a Dom. He really isn't much to look at on my scale of attractiveness, but plenty of people in my life think he's the most adorably cute man they've seen (my mother calls him 'Cute as a button! But don't tell him I said that!').

He contacted me first (he digs curvy redheads in glasses) and his personality won me over in no time flat. His heart and soul are the most attractive I've ever been blessed to know, and the physical look just doesn't matter.
10/29/2011
Rarity Rarity
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Pictures don't do anybody justice (the disadvantage of using a dating site), so I was (shallow in) skipping over Master's profile for a while ... even though I knew his screen name was a nod to him being a Dom. He really isn't much to ...
I fully agree!

I met my partner online. He was cute in his pictures, but I found out that he's much cuter in person.
10/29/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
If you're asking if I always think my husband looks good - NO. I mean, I always find him cute and looks don't exactly matter. But sometimes he'll avoid doing his hair or get a cut that makes him look weird. He's a handsome man but the wrong haircut can ruin anyone's face. So I guess yes, sometimes.
10/29/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
* so I guess no, not always. I'm half asleep lol
10/29/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
I've always thought my Hubby was attractive from the time I met him to today. Been lots of changes with age but they don't deminish by any means. There are times he's not attractive though - he's a plumber so coming home from work he's a mess and both looks it and smells it so...not attractive again til he showers!
10/29/2011
js250 js250
Yes, I do. He has a sexy aura about him that draws your attention. Luckily, we have so many things in common that we were able to build a relationship from our friendship.
10/29/2011
married with children married with children
always! but not so much when she first gets out of bed. its nothing a cup or two of coffee cant help her with.
10/30/2011
Cherrylane Cherrylane
I always thought my guy was like, reasonably attractive. In the beginning I sort of hemmed and hawed over whether i thought he was attractive *enough* because I considered him cute but not necessarily hot or super sexy.

As we got closer on a personal level though, that shallowness vanished. I realized there's really only one decision you have to make regarding looks, and that's is it good enough or not. Pick one. Pick it now. Now hemming and hawing. If it's good enough, which he very much is, let that be that and be happy. He's a great person and gets me off like no other. THAT is sexy.
10/30/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
When we first met, I objectively thought that he was attractive, but I wasn't really attracted to him because he wasn't my "type". I thought his personality was super sexy though. Now I love everything about his body too.
10/30/2011
KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
I would love to say that looks dont matter but they do. I cant love someone I dont find attractive.
10/30/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
Yes I have! And lets just say there was a quality about her when I met her that I usually find unattractive.
10/30/2011
zwee75 zwee75
I had a crush on him when we first met (at 15)!
10/30/2011
ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I thought my man was cute when I first saw him, but I was not ogling over him. I have old emails now to my BFF saying that he wasn't drop-dead-gorgeous, but he was fun to talk to me. Then, as we started to get to know each other more, he went from average to handsome. Now I find him extremely attractive on many levels, not just physical.
10/30/2011
daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by lilly555
When I first met my partner I wasn't physically attracted to them at all. But now I think he is pretty much the sexiest man. Has anyone else ever had this kind of change of heart?
I've always thought Daniel was cute, but it wasn't until we got to know each other that I thought he was smokin' hot and sexy!
10/30/2011
jenn g jenn g
From the first look into his eyes
10/31/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
i didn't think my bf was UNatractive when i 1st met him, but i didn't really find him attractive. my friends thought he was hot, & about a yr later i started seeing what they were seeing. now i think he can be hot as hell & am pretty much always attracted to him.
10/31/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by lilly555
When I first met my partner I wasn't physically attracted to them at all. But now I think he is pretty much the sexiest man. Has anyone else ever had this kind of change of heart?
i dont even remember first meeting him, but he remembers it. i didn't find him attractive until my hormones started kicking in. he was around and i was horny. lucky for me he turned out to be a really wonderful guy. and it's lasted a year so far.
10/31/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
I've always been attracted to him. More or less at times, but still attracted.
10/31/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I've always been attracted to my fiancee.
10/31/2011
Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
From the very first moment, till now. She has always been extremely attractive to me.
10/31/2011
grace grace
Im a shallow B#$@$ what can I say. I met him off of craigslist and met him because he was extremely beautiful
11/05/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
Yep, it was there the day I met him! Not love at first sight, of course, but I was highly attracted to him.
11/05/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by lilly555
When I first met my partner I wasn't physically attracted to them at all. But now I think he is pretty much the sexiest man. Has anyone else ever had this kind of change of heart?
Always attracted.
11/09/2011
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by lilly555
When I first met my partner I wasn't physically attracted to them at all. But now I think he is pretty much the sexiest man. Has anyone else ever had this kind of change of heart?
Always.
10/27/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
Oh yes...instantly.
10/27/2012
novanilla novanilla
I did, but not the way I find them attractive now. I thought they were more attractive objectively, like I knew they were an attractive person. But now I am attracted to them in ways I was not in the beginning.
10/27/2012
woodsdragon woodsdragon
I always find him attractive...but a good shower and nice clothes makes a difference as far as sexual attraction goes.
11/08/2012
justme23 justme23
Quote:
Originally posted by lilly555
When I first met my partner I wasn't physically attracted to them at all. But now I think he is pretty much the sexiest man. Has anyone else ever had this kind of change of heart?
I find my partner cute. I know that by no means he is totally attractive but I like him anyways
11/30/2012
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