A reader asked for our advice this week on a bartender she is "seeing" aka sleeping with. She wanted to know if she had screwed things up by sleeping with him the first time they went out. And our answer had much more to do with his job than the sex. In our experience, bartenders make excellent booty calls and terrible boyfriends. But is that unfair? And are there any other jobs that make someone better or worse qualified to be a boyfriend... or a booty call?