Mostly before, but if we are too caught up in the moment it'll happen after penetration! Or if he's about to nut, but he's not ready to go yet, then he will go down on me. -- But for oral before penetration, we mostly do 69.
Oral sex is a must in my relationship. Usually bf goes down on me then I return the favor and then we have sex. If hes feeling especially frisky, he might stop in the middle of sex and go back down on me... Sometimes just before he cums, Ill let him cum on my face or in my mouth. Good times at our house!!!
We do a bit of everything.
Unless it's super spontaneous sex, I almost always go down on him before sex, and I do a lot to him between switching positions, and he usually finishes in my mouth so there's oral before, during, and after for him.
For me getting oral, it doesn't happen too often, but when it does it's usually before
we just recently started having sex so so for she is still timid about me giving her oral, but she is ok giving me oral but only before. i'm fine with this i understand that she is still getting into everything so i haven't rushed her at all for anything.
My partner does it all. He always wants to give oral before sex since it is my favorite, but I never insist or even ask. I LOVE it though. He sometimes stops in the middle of sex & does it for a minute, but it's not like it's absolutely neccessary to my coming. It's sweet and does make me feel special and it's something most men wouldn't be comfortable doing. My cooter isn't dirty or gross. I never skip a GOOD shower so I don't mind and I know he's clean. I guess during sex when he stops to do it it can add extra a little since I'm really turned on and wanting to do it, but I'd never MAKE him do that.
When my baby wants head, he gets head. When I want head, I get head. Doesn't matter what's been done, where his dick has been, or what's been in my pussy. We love to eat each other up like there's no tomorrow!