Do you prefer to seduce or be seduced?

Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
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Originally posted by Happy Camper
Seduce him enough so that I catch his interest and then turn cold. Make him work for it a little. But...playing hard to get is a sort of seduction. I don't know. It really is best when both people are doing it. Maybe the question is clearer ... more
I'm with you. I usually try to tease my guy into attacking (I can't think of a better word right now). This is after we've been together for a while, though. At the beginning of a relationship I usually let the guy seduce me, that way I know when he's comfortable moving forward.

My first seduction attempt was really awkward, though. It was my first serious relationship, we were both firsties, hadn't even gotten to actual sex yet. He had been giving me oral for a while and I wanted to finally return the favor (he never even brought it up). Through the entire kissing and stuff he went along with it, but he didn't get WHY I was being so up front about it (pawing and everything) until I was fumbling with his zipper (really hard to unzip first try like that). Then he just paused for a second with this deer-in-headlights look before quickly starting to help me. So I figure that's why now I usually just do the light teases and let the guy get to the point himself.
03/27/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Depends on my mood
03/28/2011
Contributor: link82 link82
I like both - changing it up makes it more exciting!
04/01/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Both are super fun!
04/03/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
both
04/05/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I seduce unintentionally. Evidently paying attention to details and remembering things they like combined with a massive interest in sex and other forms of play is enticing to women. *shrugs*
04/06/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
I picked other but I think what I do is considered seducing. I make him want to come after me.
04/06/2011
Contributor: nicole07 nicole07
I love being seduced
04/07/2011
Contributor: LadieWithSwagg LadieWithSwagg
seducing should be both ways
04/30/2011
Contributor: Judas Iscars Judas Iscars
Both.
05/01/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Both! I love doing unique & sometimes very risky things to seduce my partner. Lol I like to surprise him and i do mean surprise! I have done crazy things to surprise and seduce him.

I also like when he talks dirty to seduce me.
05/02/2011
Contributor: Wildchild Wildchild
If it don't go both ways I feel awkward. If I am the person doing all the work than I feel like that person wants nothing to do with me and it's a bummer for me. It's really hard when you start out a relationship with a shy person.
08/03/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Had to go with infamous 'other'. We've been married over 20 years - seduction just doesn't seem an appropriate term. I'm always ready for sex - so she can't really seduce me - after all seduction is alluring someone whose at ... more
We are with you on this one!

We are mostly "on", so the seduction is more like, "Hey baby, (*wink* *nod* *grin*) wanna get it on?" and a smack on my ass as I try and race him to the bedroom.
08/03/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I like to be seduced.
08/03/2011
Contributor: Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
I wish I was more seductive, but for some reason I'm really awkward (or at least I feel that way) so it's really helpful encouragement when a guy kicks in and at least shows they're interested in continuing. I love being seduced though, however I am also impatient so I'm usually naked before they're through with the setup. Eh. it goes both ways.
08/09/2011
Contributor: Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
I seduce men... not aggressively... but I am a big flirt... I like when men flirt back of course... but I HATE when men come on to me too strongly... and when they cant take a hint to get lost...
08/09/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
I definitely am a switch in these regards.
08/09/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I haven't *really* been seduced... but seducing is great fun.
01/20/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
I love it when my man tried to seduce me
03/05/2012
Contributor: Rahel Rahel
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I have rarely had anybody attempt to seduce me, I am usually doing the seducing. On occasion it is nice to get it back though
me too, this exactly.
03/16/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
both
03/16/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I like the idea of being seduced, though sometimes it's fun to take control.
03/16/2012
Contributor: Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
i think its fun both ways.
03/19/2012
Contributor: SeductivelyCute SeductivelyCute
It depends on my mood, but I tend to want to keep the upper hand...
03/19/2012
Contributor: lillmiss5054 lillmiss5054
I like it both ways but would rather be seduced.
09/23/2012
Contributor: yummyos yummyos
Quote:
Originally posted by KnK
I can't help it, I'm addicted to making polls
I love to be seduced and seducing. It keeps the attraction at peak for me when I can be seduced and it makes me feel good when I can seduce him and make him go crazy.
09/23/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I like both...but would like getting seduced more often.
09/23/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I love to be seduced, but I've done my fair share of seducing
09/23/2012
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
i enjoy both ways
09/23/2012