I do not do this but I have friends who do. Do you flirt with others while in a relationship, or would you just feel too much guilt? Discuss!
Flirting with others while in a relationship
This REALLY depends on the boundaries of your relationship. In me and my boyfriends relationship it really wouldn't be okay to flirt, but I know for a lot of other people it would be. It's all between you and your SO!
On the other hand, I know of couples who find it okay to sleep with other people, so I think that as long as you discuss it at the beginning of your relationship and set boundaries and expectations you agree upon it's a-okay to do whatever you want.
On the other hand, I know of couples who find it okay to sleep with other people, so I think that as long as you discuss it at the beginning of your relationship and set boundaries and expectations you agree upon it's a-okay to do whatever you want.
06/02/2012
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Exactly! As long as the people in the relationship are okay with what's going on, its alright!
Originally posted by
Ryuson
This REALLY depends on the boundaries of your relationship. In me and my boyfriends relationship it really wouldn't be okay to flirt, but I know for a lot of other people it would be. It's all between you and your SO!
On the other ...
On the other ...
This REALLY depends on the boundaries of your relationship. In me and my boyfriends relationship it really wouldn't be okay to flirt, but I know for a lot of other people it would be. It's all between you and your SO!
On the other hand, I know of couples who find it okay to sleep with other people, so I think that as long as you discuss it at the beginning of your relationship and set boundaries and expectations you agree upon it's a-okay to do whatever you want.
On the other hand, I know of couples who find it okay to sleep with other people, so I think that as long as you discuss it at the beginning of your relationship and set boundaries and expectations you agree upon it's a-okay to do whatever you want.
Personally, I don't like it, and I certainly don't flirt with other people while I'm in a relationship. I also don't like it when people flirt with someone who they /know/ is in a relationship - it just seems so disrespectful!
06/02/2012
It all depends on the particulars of your relationship. So long as it's something that's discussed and agreed upon beforehand, I say flirt away!
I don't know if I'd do it, but I'm no good at flirting to begin with. I wouldn't mind if a guy I was with flirted, and might even be fine with any "fun times" that might occur - so long as I was invited to watch/join!
I don't know if I'd do it, but I'm no good at flirting to begin with. I wouldn't mind if a guy I was with flirted, and might even be fine with any "fun times" that might occur - so long as I was invited to watch/join!
06/02/2012
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It depends on several things. For instance how will it benefit US...and I say US because everything I do is to benefit my household. So if the man at the counter is gonna give me something free or a discount just to bat my eyes and giggle then SOLD. I have sat in the car when my husband went someplace because the cashier liked him and always gave him a discount or something. Our relationship is very strong and open though, so we talk about everything. This makes it a lot easier and keeps our trust levels up. I will send him over to comment on this one.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
I do not do this but I have friends who do. Do you flirt with others while in a relationship, or would you just feel too much guilt? Discuss!
06/03/2012
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Well said! It's okay in my relationship, but it varies for every couple or group. There is no set, universal model for whether or not flirting is okay.
Originally posted by
Ryuson
This REALLY depends on the boundaries of your relationship. In me and my boyfriends relationship it really wouldn't be okay to flirt, but I know for a lot of other people it would be. It's all between you and your SO!
On the other ...
On the other ...
This REALLY depends on the boundaries of your relationship. In me and my boyfriends relationship it really wouldn't be okay to flirt, but I know for a lot of other people it would be. It's all between you and your SO!
On the other hand, I know of couples who find it okay to sleep with other people, so I think that as long as you discuss it at the beginning of your relationship and set boundaries and expectations you agree upon it's a-okay to do whatever you want.
On the other hand, I know of couples who find it okay to sleep with other people, so I think that as long as you discuss it at the beginning of your relationship and set boundaries and expectations you agree upon it's a-okay to do whatever you want.
07/08/2012
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I have always flirted but my husband and life partner don't mind and we have a great time sort of watching each other. So much joie de vivre!
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
I do not do this but I have friends who do. Do you flirt with others while in a relationship, or would you just feel too much guilt? Discuss!
09/01/2012
As long as the people in the relationship are fine with it I'd say it's alright.
I'm usually a notorious flirt with my friends online myself actually, but out of respect for my boyfriend I stopped. I don't know if he'd be alright with it, and even if he was I wouldn't want to make him feel inferior somehow.
But flirting with him is just as much fun anyway. :3
I especially love saying things that make him blush...it's adorable.
I'm usually a notorious flirt with my friends online myself actually, but out of respect for my boyfriend I stopped. I don't know if he'd be alright with it, and even if he was I wouldn't want to make him feel inferior somehow.
But flirting with him is just as much fun anyway. :3
I especially love saying things that make him blush...it's adorable.
09/01/2012
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