for the guys - do you get mad if one night someone you're dating says no to sex? private voting.

edeneve edeneve
for the guys - do you get mad if one night someone you're dating says no to sex? please comment on why or why you don't if you feel comfortable in doing so.
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Ansley Ansley
Unless there was a really good reason, when we were dating both myself and my husband would be more than slightly annoyed if either of us didn't "put out" that night. I should state that we are both highly, highly sexual beings and it was extremely important for us to communicate with each other in this particular way. If we said no, there was usually a deeper, darker reason for it. Even when we've had kidney infections, broken bones and/or been in more pain than we knew what to do with, we'd still give it up if the other was wanting.
Jan 6, 12:50 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Ansley
Unless there was a really good reason, when we were dating both myself and my husband would be more than slightly annoyed if either of us didn't "put out" that night. I should state that we are both highly, highly sexual beings and it ... More
Oh my...and I thought I was a "highly sexual being", but lo and behold girl, when I had a kidney infection, not only was I not going to put out, but hubby would have never, ever thought to ask. He was too busy comforting my aching self. As for broken bones...depends where. I snapped my pelvis good during a Karate tournament many years ago, and sex (along with sitting, standing, walking, bending, sleeping) was not "on the table" for about four weeks. Again, he was, as a fellow martial artist, more in the mode of sharing my pain, then in wanting to add to it!!! We may have made up for that four weeks, in the following few months, but during that time, well, healing was the only order of business.
Jan 6, 6:41 pm
edeneve edeneve
I guess I need to clarify the question a bit. just dating - no commitment.
Jan 7, 10:59 am
Lioncub Lioncub
I'm not a guy but I would say NO. If your relationship is only built on sex then it's not much of a relationship. There are things that come up and sometimes your body just isn't up for it.
Jan 7, 11:44 am
Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Oh my...and I thought I was a "highly sexual being", but lo and behold girl, when I had a kidney infection, not only was I not going to put out, but hubby would have never, ever thought to ask. He was too busy comforting my aching self. As ... More
Ouch! The hip is essential to the act, I can see having to way the benefits in the situation -- waiting would have been the answer there for us too. I was so doped up on pain killers during the kidney episode that I think I would have mounted a pole -- narcotics like that make me so horny. But, it's almost impossible to orgasm while on them. I remember a lot of gentle touches and easing into it. The broken bones were his and he won't let anything get in the way if he's horny. Dude had pneumonia and he was still wanting to get down and dirty.
Jan 7, 1:53 pm
edeneve edeneve
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Oh my...and I thought I was a "highly sexual being", but lo and behold girl, when I had a kidney infection, not only was I not going to put out, but hubby would have never, ever thought to ask. He was too busy comforting my aching self. As ... More
ooohhh, a broken pelvis - I hurt just hearing that.
Feb 12, 12:32 pm
werewolf werewolf
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
for the guys - do you get mad if one night someone you're dating says no to sex? please comment on why or why you don't if you feel comfortable in doing so.
Absolutely not - just because you're dating someone doesn't mean they're obligated to give you sex when they don't feel like it!
May 10, 6:14 pm
edeneve edeneve
come on guys. let us all know.
May 25, 2:42 pm
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by edeneve
come on guys. let us all know.
I am glad you revived this poll because I really would like to know their true thoughts on the matter for someone they date, but don't have a commitment with.

As for Ansley's stamina, I am amazed, though I am glad she explained a little more about it. I have had a kidney infection and could never have sex with one, though I never was given pain meds, but then again, I don't get horny on pain meds. That's an interesting reaction she has! I'd definitely fall asleep instead, LOL!
May 26, 3:20 am
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Unique posters: 6