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Who here has used a dating website? I belong to 2. Which one has worked best for you? I'm getting tired of all the messages just wanting to have a booty call. Please help?
I actually used craigslist after A LOT of pushing from a male friend. I posted that i was looking for someone to chat with about my taboo fantasies and that i was only interested in emailing at the moment. i also posted that i was cautious. believe it or not after about 50 NOGO responses i found a guy who seemed like someone i might be able to chat with. we emailed, then skyped, then texted nonstop for good month and then finally met. I'm happy to say he and i are about to celebrate our 6-month anniversary in 6 days and i could not be happier.
honestly no matter what site you decide to go with i think its best to play it safe for a while and then when you feel comfortable enough to go further then and only then should you take the next step. it can get frustrating weeding through the losers but be patient and you may just find someone worth taking that chance with.
i hope my story helps and i wish you the best of luck!