Grudge FUck?

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06/15/2011
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MaryExy MaryExy
Ok, I just had to Urban Dictionary that, so I may be a little fuzzy on the definition.

I like rough sex, so I think I'd be offended if someone was doing it because they were upset with my behavior... And I don't wanna have sex with someone because they want to get back at someone else (I don't picture myself getting in that kind of situation?)
06/15/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by hspence
Your thoughts on grudge fucking?
Okay...we are open, read a lot and speak to other, very open about sex couples, but we all were shaking our heads not sure exactly what this meant and what the question was. It is GREAT you wrote the question, but can you please elaborate a bit and explain what you mean by the term, so we can give our thoughts??? THANKS.
06/19/2011
Sir Sir
What is grudge fucking?
06/19/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
From the Urban Dictionary

grudge fuck: fucking somebody you really don't like that much so you fuck the dog shit out of them.


If this is the definition, then no, I'm not. I don't mind a little angry/rough sex on occasion, but I have to at least LIKE the person to fuck them, and I have to know that the person likes/cares about me.

Something about this definition and this practice feels very uncomfortable and wrong in my mind. Almost like the mentality of the one performing this action is like, "I don't like you so I'm going to do this to you, and it's going to humiliate you, and you're going to take it and there's nothing you can do about it." In MY book, that equals rape. Not ravishment, where there's a choice for the person being "attacked" (which IS hot), but a lack of choice, and it's all about the power of one person (which is NOT HOT).

If both parties are into it, I would say that it's not actually a "grudge" and would then fall under the umbrella of angry or rough sex/humiliation scene/ravishment/power -exchange.
06/19/2011
IrishLassie IrishLassie
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
From the Urban Dictionary

grudge fuck: fucking somebody you really don't like that much so you fuck the dog shit out of them.


If this is the definition, then no, I'm not. I don't mind a little angry/rough sex on ... More
The title made me read this. Im scratching my head, unsure what it is you are talking about. At BBW, the way you described it, is something similar to what I was thinking of "grudge fucking". I agree with you 100% BBW! I dont find it at all appealing.
06/29/2011
Acorn Acorn
I'm not into anything like that. I wouldn't want to waste my time with someone I don't really like for any reason.
06/30/2011
sarki sarki
No thanks, not something I am into
06/30/2011
indiglo indiglo
I've never understood why anyone would even be remotely interested in grudge fucking. It's waaaaayyyy off my radar, I'd never even think about considering it.
06/30/2011
Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Like on True Blood?

I like angry sex, but only when it's with someone I actually want to have sex with.
06/30/2011
skunked skunked
Been there done that.
06/30/2011
Nipplopulous Nipplopulous
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Originally posted by hspence
Your thoughts on grudge fucking?
fuck yes.
07/01/2011
hspence hspence
Sorry haven't had my laptop in a while. Sorry to keep u guys hangin! What i mean by grudge fuckin is when u and ur significant other are angry at each other but you have sex anyway and it's a lot rougher than normal
07/17/2011
Lady Honey B Lady Honey B
Hell yes!! That's like hot make-up sex! Now, I like rough sex to begin with but when there is genuine anger behind it it is sooo hot! And thanks for the clarification!
07/17/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
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Originally posted by hspence
Sorry haven't had my laptop in a while. Sorry to keep u guys hangin! What i mean by grudge fuckin is when u and ur significant other are angry at each other but you have sex anyway and it's a lot rougher than normal
Love it. Angry sex is the best.

I've always thought of a "grudge fuck" as having sex with someone to get back at your ex/etc. In which case I'm down for that too.
07/17/2011
El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
From the Urban Dictionary

grudge fuck: fucking somebody you really don't like that much so you fuck the dog shit out of them.


If this is the definition, then no, I'm not. I don't mind a little angry/rough sex on ... More
OH!!!

I thought you were talking about the creaky voice chick from "The Grudge".


TOTALLY DIFFERENT!!!!
07/17/2011
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
OH!!!

I thought you were talking about the creaky voice chick from "The Grudge".


TOTALLY DIFFERENT!!!!
Hahahaha!!! Too effin' funny!!! LOL
07/17/2011
Ansley Ansley
I like angry sex but I kind of have a problem with the term grudge fucking. To me, it implies actively seducing someone you don't like very much so that you can essentially take out your negative feelings through sex. Too much like rape for me, especially if the person has no idea that you secretly loathe their very existence. Maybe I'm thinking about it too deeply.
07/17/2011
IrishLassie IrishLassie
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
OH!!!

I thought you were talking about the creaky voice chick from "The Grudge".


TOTALLY DIFFERENT!!!!
Hahahaha!!!
07/17/2011
Envy Envy
Nope. When angry the thing I do is get AWAY from people, no way am i thinking about being intimate.
07/17/2011
Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
Sounds like a good idea, kind of like bonobo culture. I don't know if I would do it. Well... probably given the right circumstance. Heehee especially if I got to be the dominant one!!


i.e. Lick my pussy, bitch! No, you can do better than that, on your hands and knees ^.^
07/30/2011
Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
I really can't stand to be near any one that I'm upset with, much less have sex with them. It would end as a beating, and not even the kinky kind.
08/09/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Miss Voluptuous
Sounds like a good idea, kind of like bonobo culture. I don't know if I would do it. Well... probably given the right circumstance. Heehee especially if I got to be the dominant one!!


i.e. Lick my pussy, bitch! No, you can do better ... More
I don't see how that's different from a humiliation scene.
08/09/2011
brittany8612 brittany8612
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Originally posted by hspence
Sorry haven't had my laptop in a while. Sorry to keep u guys hangin! What i mean by grudge fuckin is when u and ur significant other are angry at each other but you have sex anyway and it's a lot rougher than normal
yes! that's awesome sex like always
08/09/2011
ParisLove ParisLove
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Originally posted by hspence
Sorry haven't had my laptop in a while. Sorry to keep u guys hangin! What i mean by grudge fuckin is when u and ur significant other are angry at each other but you have sex anyway and it's a lot rougher than normal
Its sound kinda like make up sex a little, so yes I would do it and I have no problem with it.
08/19/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
Not sure exactly what grudge fucking is. Is it when you fuck someone's partner because a grudge or cheat because a grudge or are you fucking the person you have a grudge on for pleasure? Lol Im a little dumb right now. Anyways I don't think I'd like it. Lol. If I'm upset I'm upset and we don't have sex when we're upset.
08/31/2011
Haiku Haiku
I've experienced it, and if it is necessary for them to get past their anger and to a place where they can talk to me, I can let them. I don't look for it though, and I don't practice it myself.
08/31/2011
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
ive had grunge sex back in the day.
10/09/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
From the Urban Dictionary

grudge fuck: fucking somebody you really don't like that much so you fuck the dog shit out of them.


If this is the definition, then no, I'm not. I don't mind a little angry/rough sex on ... More
I agree.. I have to atleast like them to sleep with them.
10/16/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
From the Urban Dictionary

grudge fuck: fucking somebody you really don't like that much so you fuck the dog shit out of them.


If this is the definition, then no, I'm not. I don't mind a little angry/rough sex on ... More
Same here! I can't get excited if I don't actually care for the person...though I know many people who have no problem fucking people to gt back at someone or fucking someone they don't like so they can try some new sexual practice that the partners they care about won't (or can't) do. I find the act deplorable myself.
10/16/2011
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