I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before "complicating" things?
Do you guys think it's normal to take it to the next level after dating for 4 months?
My husband and I both new by this time that we were going to get married. He asked me after six months and we got married a year and two weeks after we first met.We hve now been together nine years and married 8. When you know you know. Actually most marriage professionals say that the guy will know in the first year and that if he doesn't ask you to marry him definately by year two then it is time to move on. Good luck and I hope my input helps. By all means though don't move in with him till after the wedding...
Jan 27, 4:22 pm
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Keep it at the pace it's at
Originally posted by
Lavender420
I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before "complicating"
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I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before "complicating" things?
Jan 27, 10:01 pm
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I've never had a successful relationship when things were taken THAT fast except with my current partner and that's by some crazy miracle! Lol. I think the best way to go is wait a couple more months just to be a little more sure. Do what you feel is best though. It's not up to anyone but you two.
Originally posted by
Lavender420
I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before "complicating"
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I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before "complicating" things?
Jan 28, 1:38 am
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That is a really personal decision that only you and your partner can make. We can offer advice or annecdotal stories but we'd need more about what you consider to be the next step!
Originally posted by
Lavender420
I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before "complicating"
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I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before "complicating" things?
Jan 28, 12:07 pm
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I had to vote to keep playing the field because nobody else did.
Originally posted by
Lavender420
I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before "complicating"
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I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before "complicating" things?
Mar 12, 1:34 pm
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I don't know what you mean by the "next level." Sex? Moving in together (kinda early for that) Engagement? (really early for that) "Going steady?" Do people do that anymore?
Originally posted by
Lavender420
I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before "complicating"
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I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before "complicating" things?
I really want to know what YOU mean by "complicating" things and the next level. We have no idea where you are right now.
Mar 12, 4:12 pm
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I dunno if I agree with those "Marriage professionals." When I was with my now husband a year, I was only 17 years old. Married at 18? No way!
Originally posted by
T-n-T
My husband and I both new by this time that we were going to get married. He asked me after six months and we got married a year and two weeks after we first met.We hve now been together nine years and married 8. When you know you know. Actually most
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My husband and I both new by this time that we were going to get married. He asked me after six months and we got married a year and two weeks after we first met.We hve now been together nine years and married 8. When you know you know. Actually most marriage professionals say that the guy will know in the first year and that if he doesn't ask you to marry him definately by year two then it is time to move on. Good luck and I hope my input helps. By all means though don't move in with him till after the wedding...
It depends on the person. In fact, at our 2 year mark, we were involved in an Open Relationship and I was in college. I was in no way ready to get married for a while.
Mar 12, 4:14 pm
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