I wouldn't be with someone who had such strong trust/insecurity issues that they'd physically CHECK instead of asking. That's messed up.
Have you ever had a partner who actually checked your body for signs of cheating i.e. hickeys?
10/22/2012
I don't think it's right. Instant break-up if anyone tried pulling this on me.
10/22/2012
yikes, that just reeks of controlling behavior. I don't want to make generalizations about relationships, but I would advise anyone in this situation to be cautious!
10/22/2012
Definitely no.
10/22/2012
if I were cheating I don't think I would have marks!!
10/24/2012
No That would be so weird
10/24/2012
never had and hope i never will thats so creepy and a big sign that he doesnt trust you.
10/24/2012
That is controlling behavior, and I'd take it as a warning sign and get out fast.
10/24/2012
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same here
Originally posted by
Ryuson
He never has, but if he was suspicious I'd let him; there'd be nothing for him to find!
10/24/2012
No, and there was never anything for him to find (wasn't cheating)...but he still accused me anyway.
10/24/2012
I agree, checking her body is a bit much. No...way too much. Very disrespectful.
10/24/2012
Only when i was a young teenager and started dating.
The one guy used to check my neck for hickeys and get on mycase about who i was talking to etc.. but in his defense
he was probably doing it because he thought that's what he was supposed to.
At 15-16 everything is about a pissing contest with guys lol
If someone tried that on me now he would be on the curb.
No time for that crap!
The one guy used to check my neck for hickeys and get on mycase about who i was talking to etc.. but in his defense
he was probably doing it because he thought that's what he was supposed to.
At 15-16 everything is about a pissing contest with guys lol
If someone tried that on me now he would be on the curb.
No time for that crap!
10/27/2012
i knew of a woman (and this is messed up imo) that when she would get home her husband would "check" to see if there were signs of her having been or being wet. i found that extremely disturbing. it wasn't a game or anything kinky, it was a very controlling husband.
10/27/2012
I've never had a guy do that.I would probably break up with him if he did that.
10/27/2012
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No but I had an ex (who broke up with me) freak out over a hand print on my wall near my bed, which obviously meant I was sleeping with others...while he left me and I was single..yep.
Originally posted by
K101
OK. I wanted to ask this question right now as I know someone who does do this to his girlfriend of 6 years and I just wanted to know what you guys think about it. Is it OK? Is it wrong? Has it ever happened to you? Would you be angry?
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OK. I wanted to ask this question right now as I know someone who does do this to his girlfriend of 6 years and I just wanted to know what you guys think about it. Is it OK? Is it wrong? Has it ever happened to you? Would you be angry?
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10/27/2012
I have never been checked for cheating and if I had a partner who checked/tried to check it would be his last time. I would leave him I think checking body parts for cheating is an invasion of private parts and not a partner's right to do so. If you suspect cheating you should talk it out not invade private parts.
10/28/2012