How do you meet a guy that you're attracted to? - Created by chibi1091 on Jan 08, 2012: EdenFantasys Forum

chibi1091

I'm wondering how other girls meet guys that they're interested in but don't actually know.

Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):

Pretend to ask for help.

Valentinka

Bump in to him "by accident."

Valentinka , Do-Re-Mi

Find out who their friends are, become friends with their friends, and then get to them.

Find out what activities they're involved in and join them.

Do-Re-Mi

Just flat out introduce yourself.

mandaj , OhMy! , Coralbell , Subbi , Puss in Boots , Tori Rebel , EdenJP , ksparkles16 , potstickers

Pretend to recognize them and then get an introduction.

Look ultra sexy and act seductively whenever you're around them and hope they talk to you.

Look ultra sexy and act seductively whenever you're around them and bravely make flirty eye contact.

Sweet-n-Playful

Make flirty eye contact.

mandaj , Coralbell , Puss in Boots , EdenJP , Taylor , Do-Re-Mi , ksparkles16 , wetone123

Be brash and tell him flat out that you think he's attractive.

Tori Rebel , KyotoAngel

Other.

mandaj , Puss in Boots , Valentinka , KyotoAngel

Total votes: 28 (15 voters)

Poll is closed

01/08/2012

mandaj

i choose introduce myself flat out and make eye contact with the flirty stare and the smile, and other is tht is how i meet my hubby when we was 16 workin at a fast food joint 8 yrs ago. never meet him b4 and i thought he was too perfect, so walked right up to him and started to talk.....didnt become a couple till a yr later cuz yea i was still shy to make the rest of the moves lol.

01/08/2012

quinceykay

That's a tough one, I'm still trying to work on that myself. lol. But I'd say be casual but straightforward, like just introduce yourself and be a bit flirty but nothing over the top. I think pretending to need help with something, "accidentally" showing up where he is and such... those come off as childish to me, and beating around the bush about it probably won't get you very far.

01/08/2012

Coralbell

Most of the guys I have been interested in were my friends first. Other than that, I've really just met guys at bars or parties. That usually involves some flirty eye contact, then going over and introducing myself.

I agree with quinceykay that it's best to avoid the pretending to bump into him, finding out who his friends are etc. Not only can that be childish, it could come across as creepy. I know if a guy did those things to me, it would be a turn off.

01/08/2012

Tori Rebel

I tend to just walk up and introduce myself and tell them something about them I like ("Hi, I'm Tori, and I have to tell you you have an amazing smile."). Occasionally I'll send a drink across a bar to someone I find attractive if that's the setting we're in. I also tend to have to come on to the men I like because I prefer them significantly older and they're less inclined to come up to someone fifteen years younger than they are.

I'm very direct but it's served me very well over the years.

01/08/2012

Valentinka

Haven't been in such situation for a long time, since I met my current partner a few years ago Before then I was a silly freshman, who would pretend she needs help, "accidentally" bump into a guy, try finding him on the Internet, etc. It would have been different today, though ))

01/08/2012

KyotoAngel

Quote:

Originally posted by chibi1091

I'm wondering how other girls meet guys that they're interested in but don't actually know.

Well for the first time in my life I flat out told the guy that I liked him and would love to be his girlfriend (this was after we had been chatting for a few weeks on MSN though).
We first met by way of a mutual friend who was talking to him and I at the same time so she invited me into the chat since she knew I had been crushing on him for a while. xD

...that man is now my boyfriend of two years. <3

01/10/2012