How many people have you had sex with?

blonde1216 blonde1216
I would like to know the average number of partners you've had!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
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36  (30%)
2-5
42  (35%)
6-10
19  (16%)
11-15
6  (5%)
16 and up
17  (14%)
Total votes: 120
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12/20/2011
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SexyStuff SexyStuff
I belong to a conservative religion, so I waited till marriage. So one for me!
12/21/2011
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by blonde1216
I would like to know the average number of partners you've had!
Neat-O bell curve here. I wonder if the results would be different in a community not based on a love for sex toys.
12/21/2011
GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
I'm pretty open about my numbers. I have had a total of 22 partners, most were short flings and 8 were virgins. (oh,my high school years of having a harem...) With the exception of the virgins and the 4 total boyfriends I've had, condoms have been used.
12/21/2011
jedent jedent
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Originally posted by GonetoLovehoney
I'm pretty open about my numbers. I have had a total of 22 partners, most were short flings and 8 were virgins. (oh,my high school years of having a harem...) With the exception of the virgins and the 4 total boyfriends I've had, condoms have ... More
curious...why NOT use condoms with the virgins? just wondering.
12/21/2011
married with children married with children
just my wife.
12/22/2011
prttynink prttynink
the number's up there, but i made a point to remember each and every one of their names
12/25/2011
MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
not enough.
12/26/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by blonde1216
I would like to know the average number of partners you've had!
LOL... Sometimes I wonder if I should answer these questions. Because I always tell the truth and someone freaks out

So here is the rundown -
I started having sex when I was 16. By the time I graduated HS I had been with 7 guys. One was a serious boyfriend who cheated (The guy I gave it up to) the other six were fuck-buddies after him including a couple of his friends. After HS I had sex with three more - one, the last of the three, being my husband. (We are up to 10)

Since then - because we have an open marriage and also do MFM's often - I have been with 17 others that I have actually had intercourse sex with - though most have been on a semi-frequent and ongoing basis and most are also MFM's with my husband, and these are almost all with people we have known and been friends with for a looooong time. I have had a couple playdates just on my own also - but none that my husband didn't know about before it happened and was ok with. ( 27 Total as of last week)

I have also done pretend sex for pictures with a few guys - but that was all just fake with no actual intercourse or oral... So I don't count those.

I did one bukkake party - where a group of guys jacked off on my boobs and ass - but no actual sex, no oral and no touching between any of us except for the cum shots - and none went in/on any mucus membranes (Yes before anyone get's excited i do know there is still a risk) So I am not sure how to count those numbers but you can add 5 because my husband was one of the participants if you feel it appropriate for them to count


Oh... and I have been with four girls over the course of my 18 years of sexual activity - and married for 15.

Hope you all have a fabulous fun New Year!!! XOX Creamy Sweet
12/26/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I don't know... I lost count after 15 ish or so.
12/26/2011
Nazaress Nazaress
Just one. My boyfriend. :"D

Oh, shit. Actually, two, I guess. I did have sex with a girl once while my boyfriend watched. I almost forgot about that. Ha ha. Oh, well. I already voted.
12/26/2011
deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by SexyStuff
I belong to a conservative religion, so I waited till marriage. So one for me!
That's great! I do too but I guess I threw that away.
01/04/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
My wife is my one and only...
01/04/2012
TameTemptress TameTemptress
One.
01/04/2012
GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
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Originally posted by jedent
curious...why NOT use condoms with the virgins? just wondering.
I didn't have access to non-latex condoms at that age and the 6 nerd virgins = safe to be with. (2 later virgins I did use condoms with)
01/08/2012
Sexy Housewife Sexy Housewife
Quote:
Originally posted by blonde1216
I would like to know the average number of partners you've had!
1, my husband. We were each other's first on our wedding day.
03/29/2012
Ashley2012 Ashley2012
i voted 6-10 but its prolly bout 13 or 14. forgot to count the girls. lol
03/30/2012
Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
Trigger Warning for sexual assault.

The first sexual experience I ever had was not consensual. I was fourteen years old. The trauma of what happened to me caused me to spiral out of control. I kept running away and such. I eventually began prostituting by age 15. By 16, I was sent to residential treatment, and have only slept with one person since.

Total number: 40+
Number excluding sexual trauma and prostitution: 1 man and oral sex with 1 woman.

I've been so lucky to have come away from my experiences clean of all STD/STIs, without a child, and with my life. The risks of my behavior are not lost on me and I am so lucky to have an understanding and compassionate lover, now.
04/02/2012
ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by blonde1216
I would like to know the average number of partners you've had!
I'm just here for the stories. Hahaha!
04/03/2012
dks210 dks210
Just one.
04/11/2012
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
Since I started having sex at 17 I've been with 3 girls. I'm 21 now. All of them were my girlfriend at some point.
04/12/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
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Originally posted by blonde1216
I would like to know the average number of partners you've had!
Only one... and I won't be sleeping with anyone else either.
04/12/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by GonetoLovehoney
I'm pretty open about my numbers. I have had a total of 22 partners, most were short flings and 8 were virgins. (oh,my high school years of having a harem...) With the exception of the virgins and the 4 total boyfriends I've had, condoms have ... More
And you're only 21? Wow!
04/12/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
I'm surprised how many people have been with more then even 20 people
04/12/2012
lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by blonde1216
I would like to know the average number of partners you've had!
9 and that was to many i think
04/12/2012
DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
A little under 5 depending on the circumstances, but overall I don't think it would be difficult for certain people to have been with a lot more.
04/12/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
I'm surprised based on this community that most of the numbers are so low!
04/12/2012
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
More than 6, but probably less than 10!
04/29/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Four
05/23/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
3, I cared for each and every one of them. Of course one is my husband of almost 9 years.
05/23/2012
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