How many times have you been played by someone in your life?

shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Some people aren't very honest when they start seeing someone..whether it be they are already with someone,or are looking just to use you,with you for some selfish reason,etc...So I'm curious how many times have you been "played" by someone you were with..that you know of? And feel free to share a story if you wish!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
0 times you dont let yourself get "played"
11  (30%)
1 to 3 times
20  (54%)
more than 3 times
4  (11%)
or so many times you can't count,and you dont really wana think about it because they are not worth it
2  (5%)
Total votes: 37
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Ansley Ansley
I've had my heart broken, sure. That was because I had unrealistic expectations for the relationship in question. But, I've never been played. Or, at least I don't think I have. It's pretty hard to slip stuff past me.
10/11/2011
Chilipepper Chilipepper
A guy I met on OKCupid who I really got along with on the first date ... made out incredibly heavy in his bed, bare skin and everything ... we both agree we're seeing each other ... then five days of silence from him after the date followed by a defriending on Facebook without any explanation.

Needless to say, I deleted my profile at OKC and entered a deep depression.

(Then Master came along a month later and renewed my faith in male honesty.)
10/11/2011
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I met a guy last May at the club that I was a regular at and I fell pretty hard and quick. Only to be dumped by him ON my birthday 3 weeks later because he had a girlfriend at the time he was just "trying out" a threesome partner.
10/11/2011
Illumin8 Illumin8
I've never really been "played" ever before.
10/11/2011
Beck Beck
Twice same guy, that actually counts. I do not count silly relationships in jr high. I was dating this guy; I will just call him A; and a friend of mine and I were with him driving around. She had to pee and we were near his house so he stopped there. I did not have to go and we were in a hurry to leave. So he unlocked the door and pointed her to the bathroom. Well he decided that when she got out of the bathroom to make a pass at her. She did not take him up on it, instead told me and I dumped him. Only to find out that a few weeks earlier he was having sex with one of my other friends. Not much of a friend. I dropped her also.
10/11/2011
big b big b
a few
10/11/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
I don't have a very diverse dating experience, so the closest I've come to being played was the guy I was flirting with in between boyfriends who pretty much dropped me like a hot potato when he figured out I wasn't going to sleep with him unless we were dating. I was a little bit irritated, but it gave me a good idea of what to look out for in the future if I was going to be trying dating again.
10/11/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
Once, but then again it was my first real relationship and I had no idea he was cheating on me. Of course he realizes what he's lost and now later on in our life has told me he's sorry and asked me to forgive him, and that he regrets it. (That being said after 2 divorces and realizing he had a good thing in high school and didn't appreciate it at the time)
10/11/2011
Eliza Eliza
I'm not sure if this counts, but my ex ended up being a completely different person than who I thought she was. It was like after she got comfortable with me, her personality changed completely.
10/11/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by shySEXXaddict
Some people aren't very honest when they start seeing someone..whether it be they are already with someone,or are looking just to use you,with you for some selfish reason,etc...So I'm curious how many times have you been "played" by ... More
Just a couple
10/16/2011
tA tA
I've been played about 3 times, but none of them hurt as much as it would have if I hadn't decided prior that they weren't good for me and I didn't care.
12/13/2011
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Yup, such is life!
12/13/2011
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Yeah, it will happen to everyone sooner or later. Live and learn...
12/13/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
It happens. you learn from it and move on.
12/13/2011
eeep eeep
Pretty much everyone gets played at one point in time. Hard not to have it happen these days, esp. considering how much less stigma it has compared to how it used to be viewed.
01/04/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
A guy I met on OKCupid who I really got along with on the first date ... made out incredibly heavy in his bed, bare skin and everything ... we both agree we're seeing each other ... then five days of silence from him after the date followed by a ... More
Same for me
01/04/2012
chibi1091 chibi1091
It hurts, but letting it get to you isn't worth it.
01/08/2012
Total posts: 18
Unique posters: 18