I want to spice things up in the bedroom!

h3artsav3r h3artsav3r
h3artsav3r
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I want to introduce some new toys to my partner. I'm not sure how to go about it though! I don't want him to feel inadequate, because he satisfies me. I would like to try some new things though. Any ideas?
12/07/2012
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Originally posted by h3artsav3r
I want to introduce some new toys to my partner. I'm not sure how to go about it though! I don't want him to feel inadequate, because he satisfies me. I would like to try some new things though. Any ideas?
I know there is definitely that fear of a partner feeling inadequate, etc, but I think it is something you will have to explain to him and expect him to get over. It's not about being satisfied, necessarily, so much as making sex more diverse, playful, interesting, enjoyable... I know my partner took a little while to be totally over that "inadequacy" complex, but now he loves using toys with me!!
12/07/2012
Ryuson Ryuson
I'd like to add that starting with something small, like a petite finger vibrator, is a great way to get him into it without feeling inadequate. Even if it's not your favorite toy ever, starting small and working your way up will help to test the waters!
12/07/2012
h3artsav3r h3artsav3r
Thanks for the feedback! I really appreciate it.
12/09/2012
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