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I want to introduce some new toys to my partner. I'm not sure how to go about it though! I don't want him to feel inadequate, because he satisfies me. I would like to try some new things though. Any ideas?
I know there is definitely that fear of a partner feeling inadequate, etc, but I think it is something you will have to explain to him and expect him to get over. It's not about being satisfied, necessarily, so much as making sex more diverse, playful, interesting, enjoyable... I know my partner took a little while to be totally over that "inadequacy" complex, but now he loves using toys with me!!