Is he gay

Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I find it creepily ironic that this thread popped back up, because not ten minutes ago I read a series of INSANELY homophobic Youtube comments, one of which (incidentally, the least offensive of the bunch, just so you can imagine the very vivid shade of red I was seeing) basically said that a person "chooses" to be gay by acting very girly.

Not to say that the OP is homophobic, but there's some definite correlation between the ideas. Just like everyone's been saying, sexuality is about who you're attracted to, not your personal tastes.
08/25/2012
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
Wow, stop stereotyping people based on their likes and dislikes. He could be gay, he could be straight. If he's dating you and you're a woman, odds are he's straight.
08/25/2012
Contributor: Alyona Alyona
Maybe
08/25/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
I said maybe just because I don't know him. But someone's likes and dislikes does not determine their sexuality.
08/25/2012
Contributor: PepperPot PepperPot
It's possible he is, and he's just closeted, but not because of any of the "evidence" you've given. Those things you mentioned are all just personal preferences, and I don't see that they would necessarily have any correlation with his sexual preferences. You might try just asking him, if you're wondering, but if he hasn't already told you he's gay, then it might be something he's not comfortable discussing. It's just my opinion, but I think it should be each individual's personal choice whether or not to reveal their sexual identity to others.
08/26/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Maybe. But you can't judge off just that.
08/26/2012
Contributor: Daofan Daofan
oh yeah he is
08/28/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I don't know, why don't you ask him?
08/28/2012
Contributor: hem hem
None of those things define someone's sexual orientation! The only way you'll get to know about his orientation is by having him you tell you what it is.
08/28/2012
Contributor: Roshandala Roshandala
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Originally posted by justmeb
His fav color is pink, his fav song is I kissed a girl and his fav movie is sex and the city???
THose are stereotypes. ASK HIM.
02/18/2013
Contributor: Ayumi Ayumi
This question seems highly stereotypical.
Without having to repeat my fellow Eden-nites, there are many other and more important things that answer that question, the #1 thing being how that individual chooses to identify.

That's like saying my partner is gay because he likes poetry. Or someone is a lesbian because she likes rock music.

It's awfully silly and pejorative.
02/18/2013
Contributor: MUEHL! MUEHL!
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Originally posted by justmeb
His fav color is pink, his fav song is I kissed a girl and his fav movie is sex and the city???
so what! confront him.
02/23/2013
Contributor: hillys hillys
I mean all guys have their feminine qualities. He could be, or he could not be. You have to watch him interact with people, or I mean if you are interested in him you could just ask.
02/23/2013
Contributor: FlashFuchsia FlashFuchsia
Just ask him. I'm personally gay and I don't care for Katy Perry and I've never seen Sex In The City and (contrary to my name) my favorite color is green.
02/25/2013
Contributor: purpledesert purpledesert
That's narrow judgement based on stereotypes.
02/25/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
this is kind of a terrible generalization of the queer community when it comes to homosexual men. Just because a man presents as feminine does not make them gay; in the same way being a masculine female does not make that person a lesbian. being gay has to do with ones sexual preference, not their preference in superficial things like a favorite color, movie or TV show. Also the fallacy of "well if he likes it in the butt then he must be gay" is also another horrible/hurtful stereotype.
02/25/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
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Originally posted by justmeb
His fav color is pink, his fav song is I kissed a girl and his fav movie is sex and the city???
Anything is possible.
02/25/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Based on those things...No.
02/25/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
Real talk here: Is he sexually and romantically attracted to men and only men?



If answer is yes: Then yes, he is gay.


If answer is "No, but": Then no, he isn't gay. Possibly bi-sexual possibly confused... but liking Katy Perry (I do.), pink being his favorite color (you do realize pussy is pink right?? Pink is my favorite color ;-), and he likes Sex in The City... Maybe he is just someone that doesn't give the world two shits about what he likes. As far as the SITC movie.. Maybe he is an advocate for horse-faced females actresses?



In short: No, liking those 3 things doesn't make him gay. He could like all 3 of those things and even have a large collection of dildos strictly for himself... but that doesn't mean he is gay.
02/25/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWill
Real talk here: Is he sexually and romantically attracted to men and only men?



If answer is yes: Then yes, he is gay.


If answer is "No, but": Then no, he isn't gay. Possibly bi-sexual possibly confused... but ... more
DING DING DING! best answer yet, very much on point.
03/05/2013
Contributor: vulvalicious vulvalicious
Need more information than that.
03/05/2013
Contributor: Sugarfina Sugarfina
He's probably gay. Are you talking about someone close to you?
03/06/2013
Contributor: Sugarfina Sugarfina
Quote:
Originally posted by justmeb
His fav color is pink, his fav song is I kissed a girl and his fav movie is sex and the city???
Oh shit this was flagged THREE TIMES! as offensicve~
03/06/2013
Contributor: xArbutusx xArbutusx
Quote:
Originally posted by justmeb
His fav color is pink, his fav song is I kissed a girl and his fav movie is sex and the city???
im gay.
03/25/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
Anyone with any preferences could be gay. Most important is if he is attracted to other men.
04/09/2013
Contributor: happymonday happymonday
I don't really assume other peoples sexual orientation until they tell me.
04/11/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
Quote:
Originally posted by justmeb
His fav color is pink, his fav song is I kissed a girl and his fav movie is sex and the city???
Maybe or maybe not. But I'm pretty sure he loses a man card for that.
04/11/2013
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Quote:
Originally posted by Alan & Michele
Unless he likes to have sex with other men, then no. It's confusing how so many women say they want sensitive men that they can relate to better, but then want to slap a gay label on them as soon as a guy admits to liking anything that isn't ... more
I agree with you. What does it matter if he likes those things? Lots of people like those things, I don't see the point here.
04/11/2013
Contributor: sunkissedJess sunkissedJess
I guess my answer would be other. I don't think those things make someone gay.
04/11/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by justmeb
His fav color is pink, his fav song is I kissed a girl and his fav movie is sex and the city???
Gay is whether he likes men, not whether he likes pink.

Just ask him who he prefers in bed - then you'll know!
05/04/2013