To do or not to do and why if you dont mind commenting! Thanks!
Kiss on the first date?
03/11/2011
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I was a second away from voting "it depends", but then I decided that I feel more like "no" Not because it's bad, but because it's still something intimate, which I won't spare right away on the first date. I must be either veeeery conservative and shy or really like the slow pace
03/11/2011
If the chemistry is there, whats wrong with it. I've gone much further than that but there was a lot of chemeistry and mutual attraction.
03/11/2011
If you feel a stong connection with the person you're on a date with; then why not go for it?
03/11/2011
I hate preset dating rules. If both parties don't play games and go with what feels right, there should be no issues, right?
03/11/2011
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I agree with this. Hell, I've even had sex on the first date. Not all the time, I think it's important to feel each situation out and see what is best.
Originally posted by
Lucidity
I hate preset dating rules. If both parties don't play games and go with what feels right, there should be no issues, right?
03/11/2011
If you seem to like each other why not? I always like it. It's a really nice way to end a great date.
03/11/2011
I see nothing wrong with it.
I really like kissing (chemistry or no chemistry because sometimes it's not an instant thing). I feel like even if the date didn't go so well at least I got something sweet out of the night.
I really like kissing (chemistry or no chemistry because sometimes it's not an instant thing). I feel like even if the date didn't go so well at least I got something sweet out of the night.
03/11/2011
I kissed on my first date with my boyfriend, but we were already really comfortable with each other because we were really good friends first. I feel like if you feel something there and you are comfortable, then go for it.
03/11/2011
It always depends. If the mood is right, go for it.
03/11/2011
It depends on the guy. It depends on the mood. It just depends.
03/11/2011
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Yep, I totally agree. I'm not into any kind of "rules" like that either. Don't enjoy playing games, either. If it was a great date, and you're both enjoying each other and connecting, I wouldn't want some preset rule to keep me from doing what felt right.
Originally posted by
Lucidity
I hate preset dating rules. If both parties don't play games and go with what feels right, there should be no issues, right?
03/11/2011
I've never been the type but I wouldn't say it's bad for ya. I'm just slow to warm.
03/11/2011
If it feels right.. go for it.
03/11/2011
I voted that it depends.
Do you know this person before the first date? That's sorta how things would go for me, if it was sorta "blind," I'd usually not kiss on a first date because it'd feel just like NICE TO MEET YOU, smooch. I normally would end up kissing on the second date.
Of course, it wasn't a rule or anything for me, it was just sorta how things went.
Do you know this person before the first date? That's sorta how things would go for me, if it was sorta "blind," I'd usually not kiss on a first date because it'd feel just like NICE TO MEET YOU, smooch. I normally would end up kissing on the second date.
Of course, it wasn't a rule or anything for me, it was just sorta how things went.
03/11/2011
It depends on if I like the person that much that I want to kiss them. If we didn't click then it's a no go. If I think another date is in our future, I want to show him/her what I have to offer. By kissing on the first date, that is a good way of knowing if you are physically compatible as well.
03/11/2011
I would never kiss on the first date. There's just no way that I would know someone well enough yet for that.
03/11/2011
My first kiss was before my first date, but I think in general I dated people who I'd been really good friends with before-hand... I guess I wouldn't kiss on an anonymous first date
03/11/2011
If the chemistry is there, even more than a kiss can work too Lust at first sight is OK, just don't confuse it with love.
03/11/2011
Life is short, sieze the moment!
03/11/2011
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My thoughts exactly!
Originally posted by
xoflxokcxo
If you feel a stong connection with the person you're on a date with; then why not go for it?
03/12/2011
No, I won't! They need to earn my respect and trust before they are getting that close.
I won't dish out personal parts of me to just anyone.
I won't dish out personal parts of me to just anyone.
03/12/2011
I think its nice to find out if there is chemistry.
03/12/2011
Dang, nearly all of the long term relationships that I've been in, we had sex in one form or another on the first date. And I consider myself to be relatively shy.
03/12/2011
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There's nothing wrong with it whatsoever. What really surprises me is that I've only done it once or twice and regretted it. I prefer to get to know someone first before jumping in, although I have been told that this might make me appear standoffish or frigid. Somehow that doesn't bother me...
Originally posted by
Partygurl04
To do or not to do and why if you dont mind commenting! Thanks!
03/12/2011
Its just a kiss and its a great way to see if theres a connection
03/18/2011
I would go for it, though I wouldn't go out with a guy unless I really liked him and knew him well enough.
03/18/2011
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if you have chemestry go for it
Originally posted by
Partygurl04
To do or not to do and why if you dont mind commenting! Thanks!
03/18/2011
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Maybe? If I like the person enough!
Originally posted by
Partygurl04
To do or not to do and why if you dont mind commenting! Thanks!
03/18/2011
If I say I don't kiss on the first date, it means I'm not into you.
03/26/2011