Kiss on the first date?

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Kiss on the first date?

Partygurl04 Partygurl04
To do or not to do and why if you dont mind commenting! Thanks!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Go for it! What's wrong with a lil smooch?
37  (33%)
No...that's bad for ya!
5  (4%)
Depends of course!
70  (62%)
Total votes: 112
Poll is closed
03/11/2011
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Valentinka Valentinka
I was a second away from voting "it depends", but then I decided that I feel more like "no" Not because it's bad, but because it's still something intimate, which I won't spare right away on the first date. I must be either veeeery conservative and shy or really like the slow pace
03/11/2011
extrafun extrafun
If the chemistry is there, whats wrong with it. I've gone much further than that but there was a lot of chemeistry and mutual attraction.
03/11/2011
xoflxokcxo xoflxokcxo
If you feel a stong connection with the person you're on a date with; then why not go for it?
03/11/2011
Lucidity Lucidity
I hate preset dating rules. If both parties don't play games and go with what feels right, there should be no issues, right?
03/11/2011
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
I hate preset dating rules. If both parties don't play games and go with what feels right, there should be no issues, right?
I agree with this. Hell, I've even had sex on the first date. Not all the time, I think it's important to feel each situation out and see what is best.
03/11/2011
Taylor Taylor
If you seem to like each other why not? I always like it. It's a really nice way to end a great date.
03/11/2011
Ajax Ajax
I see nothing wrong with it.

I really like kissing (chemistry or no chemistry because sometimes it's not an instant thing). I feel like even if the date didn't go so well at least I got something sweet out of the night.
03/11/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I kissed on my first date with my boyfriend, but we were already really comfortable with each other because we were really good friends first. I feel like if you feel something there and you are comfortable, then go for it.
03/11/2011
*Ashley* *Ashley*
It always depends. If the mood is right, go for it.
03/11/2011
Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
It depends on the guy. It depends on the mood. It just depends.
03/11/2011
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
I hate preset dating rules. If both parties don't play games and go with what feels right, there should be no issues, right?
Yep, I totally agree. I'm not into any kind of "rules" like that either. Don't enjoy playing games, either. If it was a great date, and you're both enjoying each other and connecting, I wouldn't want some preset rule to keep me from doing what felt right.
03/11/2011
liilii080 liilii080
I've never been the type but I wouldn't say it's bad for ya. I'm just slow to warm.
03/11/2011
Jobthingy Jobthingy
If it feels right.. go for it.
03/11/2011
tigerkate tigerkate
I voted that it depends.

Do you know this person before the first date? That's sorta how things would go for me, if it was sorta "blind," I'd usually not kiss on a first date because it'd feel just like NICE TO MEET YOU, smooch. I normally would end up kissing on the second date.
Of course, it wasn't a rule or anything for me, it was just sorta how things went.
03/11/2011
Tart Tart
It depends on if I like the person that much that I want to kiss them. If we didn't click then it's a no go. If I think another date is in our future, I want to show him/her what I have to offer. By kissing on the first date, that is a good way of knowing if you are physically compatible as well.
03/11/2011
Dusk Dusk
I would never kiss on the first date. There's just no way that I would know someone well enough yet for that.
03/11/2011
Mell Mell
My first kiss was before my first date, but I think in general I dated people who I'd been really good friends with before-hand... I guess I wouldn't kiss on an anonymous first date
03/11/2011
Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
If the chemistry is there, even more than a kiss can work too Lust at first sight is OK, just don't confuse it with love.
03/11/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
Life is short, sieze the moment!
03/11/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by xoflxokcxo
If you feel a stong connection with the person you're on a date with; then why not go for it?
My thoughts exactly!
03/12/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
No, I won't! They need to earn my respect and trust before they are getting that close.
I won't dish out personal parts of me to just anyone.
03/12/2011
Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
I think its nice to find out if there is chemistry.
03/12/2011
RonLee RonLee
Dang, nearly all of the long term relationships that I've been in, we had sex in one form or another on the first date. And I consider myself to be relatively shy.
03/12/2011
KnK KnK
Quote:
Originally posted by Partygurl04
To do or not to do and why if you dont mind commenting! Thanks!
There's nothing wrong with it whatsoever. What really surprises me is that I've only done it once or twice and regretted it. I prefer to get to know someone first before jumping in, although I have been told that this might make me appear standoffish or frigid. Somehow that doesn't bother me...
03/12/2011
KennyMister KennyMister
Its just a kiss and its a great way to see if theres a connection
03/18/2011
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I would go for it, though I wouldn't go out with a guy unless I really liked him and knew him well enough.
03/18/2011
ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by Partygurl04
To do or not to do and why if you dont mind commenting! Thanks!
if you have chemestry go for it
03/18/2011
darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Partygurl04
To do or not to do and why if you dont mind commenting! Thanks!
Maybe? If I like the person enough!
03/18/2011
Eden C. Eden C.
If I say I don't kiss on the first date, it means I'm not into you.
03/26/2011
Total posts: 63
Unique posters: 63