Is love possible when your mate is unable to satisfie you sexually?

I would think so, I mean, what about people in wheelchairs who end up married and such? It depends on the people, some people don't marry to have sex or just want sex, they marry due to companionship, love, and togetherness.

I agree with you, Red.

Sex truly isn't everything. And a people can always make things work, somehow.

You can have great sex in a wheel chair. I have a friend who wrote a book about it, though it was in 93 and now out of print. Rehabs for spinal cord injury pts even have sex groups that teach technique and discuss weekly. I can point you out to Magee Rehab in Philly which promotes an active sex like for people in chairs.

I would say yes you can be in love with someone who is bad in bed b/c for me love has nothing to do with sex and I can be in love with someone I have never had sex with. I think emotional bonds and physical intimacy are not needed for each other to exist.

Completely agreed. Great sex with love is fantastic, but no one's situation is perfect. Some have minor sexual issues, some are more major. If people are dedicated to making it work, it will! If my boyfriend were to become unable to perform sexually due to some physical or other issue, I'd still be in love with him. Certain logistics of the relationship would most likely change, but I'd still feel the same way I do about him.

I think you kind of answered your own question...true love is loving in spite of difficulty and mismatching. It is a pure and unselfish love. No one is perfect.

Would I enter a relationship without sexual satisfaction? Very doubtful. Safe goes for falling in love. BUT, if my partner were to get his member chopped off today, I wouldn't lose my love for him.

I fell out of love with my ex mostly because of sex.
Because there was no sex, I lost my feeling of connection with him - and I became distant, and then that made matters worse, and the whole thing just slowly died.
No physical intimacy led to no emotional intimacy, and that was the deal breaker.
I'm a very sexual person and I couldn't be with someone who wasn't.

A man with a small penis can certainly satisfy many women, if he has good skills. There is more to "satisfaction" than length and girth. For ANY man, IMO, oral and manual skills, in addition to being able to use what they have and overall lovemaking know how is important.

My Man is well endowed, but he has mad skills, both orally and manually (as well as otherwise) in the bedroom, that have nothing to do with his penis. Those skills and his enthusiasm for sex is what keeps our love and pleasure going. (Along, of course, with my own enthusiasm and continued work on my own Love Skills.)

I'm not sure what "can't or won't ride" means? Do you mean won't have sex? From my experience, few men will stay in a sexless relationship. So many of My Man's co-workers married young and Virgin and were left with sexless marriages, and there are divorces every month, ALL with the same complaint. "No sex and no emotional connection." It can't be only people we know.

I do think, however, that if a partner is unwilling to have sex, or refuses to experiment and find things that help you find your orgasm and satisfaction, the relationship is probably not going to go well. I know people who claim to have NO sex in their marriage, but I know neither My Man or I could survive in a marriage or relationship like that. I've never quite understood how "sexless" marriages last, (and most of which I know of DO end in divorce or even annulment) so count me out on that.

As for something "happening" to My Man to cause him to not be able to have PIV sex (God forbid) I know we'd find other ways to stay sexual. He's a very ingenious man, and I wouldn't give up until we had tried everything.