this is fresh off an argument with my girlfriend in where she says female masturbation is alot weirder then male because of all the juices, i disagree, i think its all the same, what do you guys think?
Male masturbation vs. female masturbation: which is less "weird"?
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Male vs. Female Masturbation
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To say female masturbation is "weirder" than male masturbation is a weird word choice.
Both male and female masturbation produce bodily fluids. Whether the male produces more or the female produces more depends very much upon the individuals in question. My husband definitely produces more bodily fluid upon ejaculation, so his masturbation is definitely messier than mine because I am not a squirter. Other than cleaning my toys, I do not require a towel post-masturbation as my husband does. But I wouldn't say his masturbation is any "weirder" than mine.
I just don't see how a necessary physiological function (i.e., release of bodily fluids) makes masturbation "weird" though.
Both male and female masturbation produce bodily fluids. Whether the male produces more or the female produces more depends very much upon the individuals in question. My husband definitely produces more bodily fluid upon ejaculation, so his masturbation is definitely messier than mine because I am not a squirter. Other than cleaning my toys, I do not require a towel post-masturbation as my husband does. But I wouldn't say his masturbation is any "weirder" than mine.
I just don't see how a necessary physiological function (i.e., release of bodily fluids) makes masturbation "weird" though.
05/21/2011
One and the same.
Though, in regards to which type of masturbation is more weird, I think male. For females (at least those who need only clitoral stimulation) can stick a bullet between their legs and no one would notice. For a man, at least from what I've experienced, masturbation is a lot more physical
Though, in regards to which type of masturbation is more weird, I think male. For females (at least those who need only clitoral stimulation) can stick a bullet between their legs and no one would notice. For a man, at least from what I've experienced, masturbation is a lot more physical
11/09/2011
Both are usually (but not always) people stimulating erectile tissue. They're just different sizes and shapes.
And both can be "messy" and require some form of prep / cleanup.
I do understand how it can feel "weird" to touch something that feels "messy", though, and if she doesn't really do it or has never tried to be okay with it, it might feel "gross" to her. I think it's a barrier some people have to overcome, having been told that sex and bodily fluids in general are "weird" and "gross".
And both can be "messy" and require some form of prep / cleanup.
I do understand how it can feel "weird" to touch something that feels "messy", though, and if she doesn't really do it or has never tried to be okay with it, it might feel "gross" to her. I think it's a barrier some people have to overcome, having been told that sex and bodily fluids in general are "weird" and "gross".
11/29/2011
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"Weird" is not the word. Sex & candy smell the same especially when mixed. But a womans cream's a dream to sniff, fine confection white or thin. Tastes GREAT! Mmmyea! Food of the God's.
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Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
01/04/2012
Masturbation isn't weird. I think a lot more women are more inhibited about masturbation than men are, but that's society and upbringing. Male and female masturbation are both normal and natural. The "mess" factor depends very much upon the individuals and what kind of masturbation they're engaging in. I've known men that have A LOT of precum that seeps during sex and masturbation that can get to the point of being messy, while others have none or very little of this, plus the final ejaculation, which quantity depends greatly upon the individual. Some women barely get wet during masturbation, some soak the sheets, some are "squirters" while some are gushers, and some produce little fluid at all. Some masturbators for men provide a "catch" for the fluids which can then be cleaned later. Some women produce a lot more fluid during toy assisted masturbation, and some produce much more when vaginal, a-spot and/or g-spot stimulation is involved. But neither is weird.
Now...being a lesbian, male masturbation isn't really something I appreciate. Wouldn't, say, wanna watch a guy jack off. Eww, penises and scrotums and semen, oh my. Yuck. Not that they're "weird", per se, plenty of people like that sort of thing, luckily for guys. But female masturbation is beautiful and incredibly sexy to me. So, I guess it depends on what you like and are attracted to, but I don't think it's fair to say that either is weird.
Now...being a lesbian, male masturbation isn't really something I appreciate. Wouldn't, say, wanna watch a guy jack off. Eww, penises and scrotums and semen, oh my. Yuck. Not that they're "weird", per se, plenty of people like that sort of thing, luckily for guys. But female masturbation is beautiful and incredibly sexy to me. So, I guess it depends on what you like and are attracted to, but I don't think it's fair to say that either is weird.
04/02/2012
Oh, for the love of...masturbation isn't "weird." It's natural, it's healthy and everyone should do it. As for a woman's "juices," how does that make female masturbation weird? Would it be better to be dry as a bone in between your legs? We get wet when we are aroused--that's a how our bodies work. Your friend has weird ideas about masturbation, honestly...
08/31/2012
?? Weird? That's such a strange question... I can't think of why stimulating a specific configuration of nerves would be weirder than stimulating the other, it's all the same stuff in different places, how can that be weird? This seems nearly sexist, I just don't see how stimulating ANY genitalia could be "weirder" than any other.
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I hate saying masturbation is weird, because it isn't. But if I HAD to choose which sex makes masturbation weirder, I would pick males. I mean they make messes! We get our toys/hands wet, but they actuall shoot stuff out places.
Nonetheless, I find masturbation to be normal for either sex. Nothing to be ashamed of.
Nonetheless, I find masturbation to be normal for either sex. Nothing to be ashamed of.
05/19/2011
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