Male masturbation vs. female masturbation: which is less "weird"?

Pablo F Lleras Pablo F Lleras 05/18/2011

this is fresh off an argument with my girlfriend in where she says female masturbation is alot weirder then male because of all the juices, i disagree, i think its all the same, what do you guys think?

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Pablo F Lleras Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
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Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
Neither. We were all created as sexual beings, and the "juices" are there to help us enjoy it.
05/19/2011
daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
All the same.
05/19/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Definitely all the same.
05/19/2011
namelesschaos namelesschaos
Another all the same vote here.
05/19/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
they are the same, neither is weird.
05/19/2011
CAKES CAKES
I don't see that either is weird.
05/19/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Neither is weird to me
05/19/2011
big b big b
the same
05/19/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I don't think it's weird either way.
05/19/2011
Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
Weirder? Neither. Now if you'd asked which is messier...
05/21/2011
CuteDee CuteDee
Hmmm... I think its more accepted that men masterbate than women. Personally, Id rather have sex than masterbate.
05/21/2011
Alyjazz Alyjazz
I don't find either to be weird so I'm with you: all the same.
05/21/2011
Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
To say female masturbation is "weirder" than male masturbation is a weird word choice.

Both male and female masturbation produce bodily fluids. Whether the male produces more or the female produces more depends very much upon the individuals in question. My husband definitely produces more bodily fluid upon ejaculation, so his masturbation is definitely messier than mine because I am not a squirter. Other than cleaning my toys, I do not require a towel post-masturbation as my husband does. But I wouldn't say his masturbation is any "weirder" than mine.

I just don't see how a necessary physiological function (i.e., release of bodily fluids) makes masturbation "weird" though.
05/21/2011
Ms. Paprika Ms. Paprika
It's all the same; I think female masturbation would only seem "weirder" because society generally doesn't condone it.
05/21/2011
C-Rae C-Rae
It's all the same. Everybody does it.. It's not weird in fact, It's healthy.. Everyone should.
06/10/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
Because of all the "juices?" Like female ejaculation or come? I don't see what makes that weird. I really don't find either to be weird.
06/10/2011
Inwitari Inwitari
All the same to me
06/10/2011
lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
It's the same, no different.
06/11/2011
moonch1ld moonch1ld
all the same
06/12/2011
Mikey Likesit Mikey Likesit
not weird at all
06/12/2011
MN58 MN58
I find it to be equal. everybody has juices and well its normal so its not wierd at all.
06/12/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
neither its sexy either way
06/18/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
We're all the same. I hate that your gf finds it weird.
11/05/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
Neither is weird. Both are normal, healthy expressions of sexual energy. And juices are hot!
11/05/2011
Fun Lover Fun Lover
The same!
11/05/2011
SaMiKaY SaMiKaY
One and the same.

Though, in regards to which type of masturbation is more weird, I think male. For females (at least those who need only clitoral stimulation) can stick a bullet between their legs and no one would notice. For a man, at least from what I've experienced, masturbation is a lot more physical
11/09/2011
irishlove irishlove
Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
Neither are weirder. In fact, I enjoy seeing my partner masturbate. Sometimes we'll watch each other.
11/12/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
The only thing I find weird is your question. I don't really understand what you mean really. Hmm.
11/12/2011
GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
Neither method is 'weird'. You seem weird to me for needing to ask that question. O_o We all produce lubrication during sexual arousal,it's a normal thing.
11/12/2011
indiglo indiglo
I agree with Sinfully. The only weird thing is the question. Juices are juices, masturbation is masturbation. It's the same thing, there shouldn't be a double standard there.
11/12/2011
TameTemptress TameTemptress
Neither is weird...
11/13/2011
MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
I don't think either is "wierd"... <//<"
11/13/2011
Chirple Chirple
Both are usually (but not always) people stimulating erectile tissue. They're just different sizes and shapes.

And both can be "messy" and require some form of prep / cleanup.

I do understand how it can feel "weird" to touch something that feels "messy", though, and if she doesn't really do it or has never tried to be okay with it, it might feel "gross" to her. I think it's a barrier some people have to overcome, having been told that sex and bodily fluids in general are "weird" and "gross".
11/29/2011
BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
Nothing at all weird for either! It's natural and exciting!
11/29/2011
Annaliese2010 Annaliese2010
Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
"Weird" is not the word. Sex & candy smell the same especially when mixed. But a womans cream's a dream to sniff, fine confection white or thin. Tastes GREAT! Mmmyea! Food of the God's.
01/04/2012
RavenWolf88 RavenWolf88
Quote:
Originally posted by BuckeyeGal04
Nothing at all weird for either! It's natural and exciting!
Ditto.
01/05/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Nothing weird about anyone making some juice, I say.
01/07/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
From a third person perspective, why was there even an argument? There's nothing weird about masturbation, or any of the effects related to it. If you have to disagree on something, how about cost-effective methods for preventing malaria?
01/20/2012
armywife2425 armywife2425
I say that its natural for both male and female to masturbate there is nothing weird about it.
02/24/2012
DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Neither, both happen and it's equally awkward when your roommate walks in.
02/25/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Neither is weird.
02/25/2012
CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
i guess id say women only due to the fact that many people dont understand the "squirt"
02/25/2012
Lano4ka Lano4ka
neither
02/28/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Neither is weird. Orgasms for all!
03/11/2012
loveshocks loveshocks
I never thought of either male or female masturbation as being weird.
03/12/2012
GONE! GONE!
Quote:
Originally posted by loveshocks
I never thought of either male or female masturbation as being weird.
This. O.o
03/12/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
It's not weird. The word juices grosses me out though.
03/12/2012
mlmac mlmac
Neither. I consider masturbation to be natural for both male and females.
03/18/2012
Positwist Positwist
Ah, so good to see so many people saying neither are weird! I agree, of course.
03/18/2012
SeductivelyCute SeductivelyCute
I think neither is weird.
03/19/2012
Trepier Trepier
All the same really. Only differences is the way in which it is done.
03/20/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
I wasn't aware that either acts were weird.....?
03/20/2012
tom fay tom fay
neither? both seem like very natural things to me..... plus.. orgasms are good for you
03/20/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
Masturbation isn't weird. I think a lot more women are more inhibited about masturbation than men are, but that's society and upbringing. Male and female masturbation are both normal and natural. The "mess" factor depends very much upon the individuals and what kind of masturbation they're engaging in. I've known men that have A LOT of precum that seeps during sex and masturbation that can get to the point of being messy, while others have none or very little of this, plus the final ejaculation, which quantity depends greatly upon the individual. Some women barely get wet during masturbation, some soak the sheets, some are "squirters" while some are gushers, and some produce little fluid at all. Some masturbators for men provide a "catch" for the fluids which can then be cleaned later. Some women produce a lot more fluid during toy assisted masturbation, and some produce much more when vaginal, a-spot and/or g-spot stimulation is involved. But neither is weird.

Now...being a lesbian, male masturbation isn't really something I appreciate. Wouldn't, say, wanna watch a guy jack off. Eww, penises and scrotums and semen, oh my. Yuck. Not that they're "weird", per se, plenty of people like that sort of thing, luckily for guys. But female masturbation is beautiful and incredibly sexy to me. So, I guess it depends on what you like and are attracted to, but I don't think it's fair to say that either is weird.
04/02/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I don't find it gross or weird. It's just another great way to kill time or release some tension.
04/02/2012
Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
I don't find it gross or weird.
04/11/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
Both kind of strange, if you really think about it. FUN, but strange!!!
07/13/2012
heather-mooney heather-mooney
it's all a social construct. there is no right answer.
08/05/2012
CaliGirl CaliGirl
Neither is weird. It is completely normal and natural.
08/21/2012
michael scofield michael scofield
its not weird and i love the juices wish i had a girlfriend to swallow all her juices
08/21/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Neither, both are normal and healthy
08/21/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
Oh, for the love of...masturbation isn't "weird." It's natural, it's healthy and everyone should do it. As for a woman's "juices," how does that make female masturbation weird? Would it be better to be dry as a bone in between your legs? We get wet when we are aroused--that's a how our bodies work. Your friend has weird ideas about masturbation, honestly...
08/31/2012
evie.amor evie.amor
Quote:
Originally posted by newfoundlust
Neither. We were all created as sexual beings, and the "juices" are there to help us enjoy it.
Agreed, there isn't anything "weird" about masturbation specifically. When you really think about it, people are pretty "weird" in general!
03/06/2013
LeeBee LeeBee
Neither of them seem weird.
03/14/2013
butts butts
?? Weird? That's such a strange question... I can't think of why stimulating a specific configuration of nerves would be weirder than stimulating the other, it's all the same stuff in different places, how can that be weird? This seems nearly sexist, I just don't see how stimulating ANY genitalia could be "weirder" than any other.
03/14/2013
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
Never really thought of it as weird.
03/14/2013
cgartman1989 cgartman1989
i dont think either is weird
04/18/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
which one is weirder?
See my post on the other topic.
05/19/2011
yoham45 yoham45
:| hm.
05/19/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
I hate saying masturbation is weird, because it isn't. But if I HAD to choose which sex makes masturbation weirder, I would pick males. I mean they make messes! We get our toys/hands wet, but they actuall shoot stuff out places.

Nonetheless, I find masturbation to be normal for either sex. Nothing to be ashamed of.
05/19/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I don't think masturbation is weird for anyone.
05/19/2011
kittychilla kittychilla
um...why is it wierd?
06/11/2011
zeebot zeebot
I don't think it's weird.
06/12/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I don't think it's weird for either sex.
11/05/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
which one is weirder?
Neither... we're all human
11/09/2011
chicken12 chicken12
Male masturbation is more acceptable in our culture.

Biologically, both are completely normal and healthy.
11/12/2011
indiglo indiglo
I agree with chicken12. The only thing that makes it seem weird is society's cultural ideas. Neither's weirder than the other, and I think it's weird to think it's weird. lol
11/12/2011
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Neither is what I'd call "weird." Maybe "awesome" or "spectacular," but not "weird."
01/07/2012
chantal coopette chantal coopette
i don't find either of them weird
01/18/2012
Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
i don't think so
01/27/2012
Greenleaf Greenleaf
Both are normal.
02/24/2012
kawigrl kawigrl
neither
02/24/2012
dhig dhig
both are ftw
02/25/2012
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Pablo F Lleras
which one is weirder?
buth r fun for theuir perpous
02/25/2012
icyqueen icyqueen
Neither!
03/18/2012
Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
neither
03/19/2012
Trepier Trepier
Again neither is weird. Both are absolutely normal
03/20/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
Neither are weird.
04/02/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
Female is made taboo and "weird" by our society.
08/05/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Neither
08/05/2012
Girly Juice Girly Juice
Masturbation isn't weird. Period.
08/23/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Neither.
09/08/2012
karenm karenm
Male masturbation seems to be more socially accepted (and is talked about more), but neither is weird.
04/25/2013
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