Meaning of a Virgin?

AtlDom85 AtlDom85
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How far can you go before you're no longer considered a virgin? Does oral sex, fingering or using toys for men and women constitute the loss of their virginity or is it only the act of intercourse? Everyone has different opinions so feel free to express yours and the reasoning behind it.
03/20/2011
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ColorSplash ColorSplash
Well I am a total virgin but I think that once it (a man's penis) goes inside then you are no longer a virgin. So it would be the act of intercourse.
03/20/2011
indiglo indiglo
I tend to take the word in its broadest sense, personally. I feel once you are sexual with another person, you are no longer a virgin. For example, if you suck 50 cocks and have anal sex with 50 people, I don't personally see how you can be considered a virgin. I know that's kind of an extreme example, but I personally don't think virginity is solely linked to PIV intercourse. But, your mileage may vary and all that.
03/20/2011
Ansley Ansley
Apparent as of late, words like "virgin", "male/female", and "gender" have whatever meaning a person chooses to apply to it for their purposes.

Traditionally, it is penis in vagina sex and that is the defintion I prefer.
03/20/2011
ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
I'd consider any sex to constitute no longer being a virgin which means any oral, anal, or vaginal sex = not a virgin.
However, I also consider each to have it's own 'cherry' as it would, regular cherry of course being vaginal, black cherry (ewww LOL) being anal...Can't really think of what they'd call oral though alot of people don't consider getting oral losing your 'virginity' these days it seems.
03/20/2011
Avant-garde Avant-garde
The definition of virgin is one that I leave to the individual to define for what works best for them.
03/20/2011
markeagleone markeagleone
The religious answer would be someone who has not known another. Yes, by known, that covers oral, anal and regular. In the days we live now, people would consider it anything they choose to mean.
03/21/2011
Ella71 Ella71
I have never had a real penis in me before so I consider myself a virgin. The first time I recieved oral sex was not my choice. I said no and he pretended to not understand. It lasted maybe a minute and I cried afterwards. I don't count that as being when I lost my virginity. I think it's an individual thing, but I will say that when people have consensual oral, manual or anal sex, it counts as something. It's a little annoying when a girl says she's had oral and anal with her boyfriends, but is still a "innocent little virgin". I think the word virgin is pointless anyway. I'd like to think I lost my virginity to myself when I started masturbating. That's when I became sexual. So I can't really answer the question. It's subjective.
04/16/2011
Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by Ansley
Apparent as of late, words like "virgin", "male/female", and "gender" have whatever meaning a person chooses to apply to it for their purposes.

Traditionally, it is penis in vagina sex and that is the defintion I prefer.
I totally agree with you!
04/16/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
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Originally posted by AtlDom85
How far can you go before you're no longer considered a virgin? Does oral sex, fingering or using toys for men and women constitute the loss of their virginity or is it only the act of intercourse? Everyone has different opinions so feel free ... More
i think that your a virgin until you have actual intercourse. a guy friend of mine once told me that he thought you were still a virgin until you actually came inside a girl. another gal pal of mine thinks that just having an orgasm that someone else gives you means you're no longer a virgin... even if the guy just rubs your clit.
05/05/2011
x203 x203
I think it just means intercourse. Like penis in vagina. Not even orgasming. I never understood the orgasming idea for guys because usually when a guy and a girl lose it together the guy finishes first. If people thought they lost it when one finished, then a lot of girls would still be virgins, if that made sense.
03/10/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I would say penis in vagina if you want to be technical. Then again, I still consider my loss of virginity to a woman. Go figure.
03/11/2012
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