Most distressing thing to find out about your date

Contributor: cepl5869 cepl5869
liar and std and if she had a penis
04/03/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I hate liers! I wouldn't like to be polygamous. If the STD wasn't treatable and they didn't tell me I'd be pissed.
04/03/2012
Contributor: hot n spicey hot n spicey
STD would be a major problem but so would being a liar. Been in a relationship like that and it is so stressful.
04/03/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Compulsive liar would be the worst. How could anyone live with this? I did date a guy who was, I think a very dishonest man, and I broke it off as soon as things started to not make sense. (I never had sex with him. Usually my instincts are good about these things.)

The STD would differ. It is curable? If he goes for treatment then it isn't a problem. I did once refuse to sleep with a guy, in part, because he told me he had a fairly "minor" STD before we went out. It was curable, but he didn't want to take the medication becaues you have to not drink alcohol for the entire week, plus a few days, when you are on it. I thought this man not only didn't care about his own health, but he didn't care about his partners.

That being said, My Man was living with his parents when we started dating, (he found it embarrassing, although he was saving for a house, and got an apartment not too long after) and he's older than I am. But, he had a college education and a good full time job, and he was paying rent to them, and it didn't last that long, so it wasn't a big deal.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Numerous things would have been deal-breakers for me. In general, anything that makes someone unpleasant to be around.
04/03/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by lezergirl
Which of these would be the biggest deal breaker on a first date?
complisuve lier hands down
04/03/2012
Contributor: GS500 GS500
this thread makes me nervous
04/05/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
STDs could be dealt with with precautions and as long as he understands that I am NOT getting whatever he has. I've dated someone in a relationship group before, but a liar is something I'm NOT down for.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
The compulsive lying would irritate the crap outta me!
04/11/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
Lying can cover a lot of things. I go with that.
04/17/2012
Contributor: lilys lilys
I hate liars.
04/22/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Definitely lying.
04/26/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by lezergirl
Which of these would be the biggest deal breaker on a first date?
ouch alot of these are complete turn offs but to me i'd have to choose the liar one
04/26/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Lying would be a big problem for me.
04/26/2012
Contributor: 31 Flavors 31 Flavors
I don't care for liars.
04/26/2012
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
Lying and poly. I have no problem with poly, but it's not the type of relationship I want.
04/26/2012
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
A lier
04/26/2012
Contributor: RxL00 RxL00
Quote:
Originally posted by lezergirl
Which of these would be the biggest deal breaker on a first date?
I believe you meant to spell it "liar".
06/14/2012