I am not looking for a partner right now, If I was, I'd probably want someone AT my level of experience AND kink.
But, when I was younger and dating, I definitely wanted men who knew what they were doing. I've never dated a man younger than myself, (had some crushes, had a chance to deflower a Freshmen when I was a Senior in HS and passed on it.)
My Man certainly knew more about sex when I met him. He taught me a lot and trained me well. As it is now, we're probably pretty even. I tend to know a little
more about certain kinks, (His eyes got really big when he made me open the last box that came from Eden
) but he always surprises me with new things, even after several decades together.
If something were to happen (heaven forbid) and I had to date again, I can't imagine being with a younger, inexperienced man. It might be a challenge, but I'm not so sure I'd get what I want out of it. It just holds no interest for me. I probably would be able to teach him a lot, but I want a man who takes charge.
It's just me.
Mileage and all that