What category I fall into depends on what definition of marriage you're using. I live in PA and my partner and I aren't allowed to be legally married here. So.. I'm the gay kid equivalent of married? We know each others immediate and extended families as well as friends, live together, and are raising a kitten together. That's the closest we can get to "married" without some laws being changed and the kitten is the closest we can get to children until we're both out of school and have the extra money for IV or adoption fees.