Safe places to meet sex partners?

Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Let's assume that my 6-month dry spell turns in to 12-month dry spell, at which point I declare that all bets are off on my vow to have a serious relationship. What are some safe places/sites/ways/what ever to meet new sex partners or FWB? I would prefer something discreet (AdultFriendFinder, for example, is way too popular to be discreet, it seems) and free, if at all possible.
05/13/2009
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Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
Let's assume that my 6-month dry spell turns in to 12-month dry spell, at which point I declare that all bets are off on my vow to have a serious relationship. What are some safe places/sites/ways/what ever to meet new sex partners or FWB? I ... More
okcupid link
plentyoffish link

They aren't explicitly about sex, though.

Everyone on both are a little off, I'm not gonna lie, especially the first. but the first has a much better community, a lot like this one. So I'd say that one.
05/13/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
okcupid link
plentyoffish link

They aren't explicitly about sex, though.

Everyone on both are a little off, I'm not gonna lie, especially the first. but the first has a much better community, a lot like this one. So ... More
My brother's on PlentyofFish, so that's a no-go.

I'm really looking for communities that are geared towards casual dating and FWB rather than romantic dating.
05/13/2009
Welmby Welmby
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Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
My brother's on PlentyofFish, so that's a no-go.

I'm really looking for communities that are geared towards casual dating and FWB rather than romantic dating.
try lavalife.com
05/29/2009
Cinnamon Chambers Cinnamon Chambers
datehookup.com and adult friend finder were my friends suggestions.
05/29/2009
Boxers Over Briefs Boxers Over Briefs
Craigslist! <--- That is a lie... don't go there. Craigslist is a bad place.
05/29/2009
Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
My brother's on PlentyofFish, so that's a no-go.

I'm really looking for communities that are geared towards casual dating and FWB rather than romantic dating.
I think they both have "casual encounter" option.
05/29/2009
Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Boxers Over Briefs
Craigslist! <--- That is a lie... don't go there. Craigslist is a bad place.
No its not. I met a great sex partner on craigslist. I also know someone who is in a serious relationship now with someone she met on craigslist. You have to be careful, but that's true with any of these sites.
05/29/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
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Originally posted by Tuesday
No its not. I met a great sex partner on craigslist. I also know someone who is in a serious relationship now with someone she met on craigslist. You have to be careful, but that's true with any of these sites.
I think my issue with Craigslist at the moment is that it's on the news so much lately that I'm worried one of my curious family members will wander on. Every other suggestion sounds like a good idea, though.
05/29/2009
Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
I had a lavalife account for a while. I chatted with several men I met on there, but at that time it was set up so that I couldn't look for a female partner.

I never met any of the men I met on there because after picture exchanges started, I just wasn't attracted to them enough to take the risk of meeting them. Yes, that's snooty, but heck - if you're handpicking sexual partners you should go for what turns you on.
05/29/2009
Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
I think my issue with Craigslist at the moment is that it's on the news so much lately that I'm worried one of my curious family members will wander on. Every other suggestion sounds like a good idea, though.
I'm not pushing it, but you could just reply to ads others post. Your family will never know. And if you post ads they don't have to have pictures.
05/29/2009
Boxers Over Briefs Boxers Over Briefs
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Originally posted by Tuesday
I'm not pushing it, but you could just reply to ads others post. Your family will never know. And if you post ads they don't have to have pictures.
It'd be pretty hilarious if her brother replied to that ad though, or she replied to her brother's. And by hilarious, I mean that'd be pretty awful.
05/30/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
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Originally posted by Boxers Over Briefs
It'd be pretty hilarious if her brother replied to that ad though, or she replied to her brother's. And by hilarious, I mean that'd be pretty awful.
My brother? Never. Deep down, he's a real sweetheart and wouldn't think a hook-up was the proper way to treat a lady. That, and he's a wee bit of a prude.

Tuesday, I hear ya, but my sister regularly trolls Craigslist in our state for a laugh. If she saw my ad in the remote location where I live during the school year, she'd more than likely pinpoint me.
05/30/2009
alayamae alayamae
School is the best place
08/24/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I know a lot of people don't like the cheating aspect of the site but ashleymadison.com also caters to singles looking for no-strings-attached relationships.
08/24/2010
Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Cinnamon Chambers
datehookup.com and adult friend finder were my friends suggestions.
AFF is a good place
11/25/2010
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
depends on what kind of things you like. If you're a kinky person you could try link
01/27/2011
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
coffee shop or a bar.
11/07/2011
Annaliese2010 Annaliese2010
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
Let's assume that my 6-month dry spell turns in to 12-month dry spell, at which point I declare that all bets are off on my vow to have a serious relationship. What are some safe places/sites/ways/what ever to meet new sex partners or FWB? I ... More
Public Fuckbook may be worth a try...but imo ALL hookup sites are a fcn waste a time. 20-something waitresses are the best!
01/04/2012
deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
Let's assume that my 6-month dry spell turns in to 12-month dry spell, at which point I declare that all bets are off on my vow to have a serious relationship. What are some safe places/sites/ways/what ever to meet new sex partners or FWB? I ... More
I would say a club.
01/04/2012
BlueFawn369 BlueFawn369
Does PoF have a charge to it? I'm almost to the point of feeling desperately pathetic. I've never had sex, I feel I'm ready, and I can only do so much with my toys. (2-3 times a day has to be a sign of something). I'd prefer something more than a fling though. I haven't the slightest idea how to go forward with all this.
02/19/2012
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