Sex is a chore

LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
What does it mean when a man thinks having sex is a chore. He says he loves me and I know he does because he puts up with all of my crap. He is snuggly but not in a sexual way. We used to have sex but now he is not interested but one a month.
06/29/2012
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Sangsara Sangsara
that he's getting old and out of shape lol
06/29/2012
LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
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Originally posted by Sangsara
that he's getting old and out of shape lol
he's 19
07/01/2012
shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
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Originally posted by LunaLuthor
What does it mean when a man thinks having sex is a chore. He says he loves me and I know he does because he puts up with all of my crap. He is snuggly but not in a sexual way. We used to have sex but now he is not interested but one a month.
In my opinion...he loves you but has maybe fallen out of love with you?I hate to say that..maybe he has alot of stress going on or things on his mind,but from my personal experience quite simliar to this it was the bad thing I just said .Sit down and talk to him..dont argue, dont cry, just ask the simply question on why and tell him you wont freak but want an honest answer and see what he says.Good luck little lady
07/01/2012
Sangsara Sangsara
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Originally posted by LunaLuthor
he's 19
Maybe figuratively and not biologically? There are so many contributing factors and I'm not a doctor BUT I gave had several partners go through phases like this- some of them accepting of it and others not. Sometimes one partner can be liked" I don't feel close to ou so I don't want to have sex" and the other can be like " I want to have sex so I can feel close to you" humans are weird. Don't take it personally unless you've talked to him thoroughly. I can almost guarantee though that unless he's the biggest ass on the planet , that if he's 19 it has nothing to do with whether he's attracted to you or not. His heart is with you so his groin will catch back up eventually
07/02/2012
LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
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Originally posted by Sangsara
Maybe figuratively and not biologically? There are so many contributing factors and I'm not a doctor BUT I gave had several partners go through phases like this- some of them accepting of it and others not. Sometimes one partner can be ... More
I talk to him and what he says matches this a bit. He doesn't feel like sex is necessary to feel close to me. He already feels as close to me as he can possibly be.
07/02/2012
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