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Contributor: CaliGirl CaliGirl
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When you first start dating someone, what are the biggest turn on's & off's?
06/25/2012
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Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
B.O. or bad teeth is a turn off and I wouldn't be with them. Turn on is manly men, hairy, bearded, jack-of-all-trades types.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by CaliGirl
When you first start dating someone, what are the biggest turn on's & off's?
Being unclean, needing to trim nails, shave, brush teeth, shower. I would not go on a date with someone if they were not into showering!
09/15/2012
Contributor: 783883877299373783 783883877299373783
Going to echo what has been said.
02/20/2013
Contributor: MrWood MrWood
One of my fav turn ONS is a woman that takes care of herself. I don't mean looking like a barbie, but just a woman that smells and looks nice, has the desire to make herself look attractive for me. You'd be surprised how many women these days don't do any thing special to herself of pleasing to her man.
03/20/2013
Contributor: doowop doowop
An overly harsh sense of humor or rude behavior is a major turn off. I know I'm sensitive and it would eventually become a problem. A major red flag for me is someone who speaks ill of every single one of their exes. Usually means they aren't owning up to their share of what caused the breakup. I agree on poor hygiene as well. And partying. I'm out of the stage of my life, and while I don't judge others for what they do, I just don't want a partner who still rages every weekend.

Turn ons are kindness, very good manners and etiquette, a silly sense of humor (I absolutely love to laugh), a laid back attitude, book smarts, goals, interests that are actually explored and not just talked about. I love strange personalities as well, and introverts who can socialize a bit. Oh and sexual confidence, or at least a curiosity in learning new things.
04/05/2013
Contributor: Janene Janene
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Originally posted by CaliGirl
When you first start dating someone, what are the biggest turn on's & off's?
intelligence. good personality. But that all has to be with someone who is at least pretty good looking.
04/15/2013