What are physical deal breakers when choosing a partner?

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What are physical deal breakers when choosing a partner?

<3BF <3BF
What are physical flaws that you would consider deal breakers in choosing a sexual partner? Pick all the options that would make someone not physically to your tastes at first sight.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Bad breath or teeth
Hair color
Ugly hair/no hair
Too hairy
Chest too large
Chest too small
Lunpy look in butt/legs/anywhere
Gut too big
Waist too small
Annoying voice
Annoying mannerisms
Too tall
Too short
Bad skin tone/texture
Too overweight
Too underweight
Smells in general
Other (explain)
None (I never care about physical traits in my partners)
Total votes: 408 (69 voters)
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Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
I'm really glad you went with private voting on this haha.

But my 3 main ones, are general bad smell, bad teeth, bad breath, and an annoying voice. I know someone that has a really annoying voice and it's like nails on a chalk board.
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Originally posted by <3BF
What are physical flaws that you would consider deal breakers in choosing a sexual partner? Pick all the options that would make someone not physically to your tastes at first sight.
Anything that speaks of bad grooming is a major turn off for me.
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I didn't realize I had so many turn offs!
BobbiJay BobbiJay
I can't stand bad breath or just bad smells in general.
Nazaress Nazaress
The only things that bother me are, like, smelly and annoying people. Also, I would NEVER, ever, ever, ever, EVER (Did I say ever?) date someone who is underweight. I'm wary of even just plain skinny people. I'm dating a big guy right now who is definitely overweight (but not morbidly obese) and I LOVE him that way.
Teacookie Teacookie
broke up with my first boyfriend because he had gingervitis. he said he couldn't get rid of it BS! I've done the research and I've gone through dental assisting. Also hygien is important in general to me. No hygien means lazy slob with low self esteem. Also if I have to move body parts out of the way to get to the goods so to speak *shudder*.

Smell is the most important to memory then I think it was texture sight and finally sound. Bad skin can be worked with, underweight or overweight can also be worked with as in changes in life style can help improve ones health. Annoying voice...... >_< my favorite thing a guy can do and rarely does is sing to me while I am snuggled into them. Lot's of small annoying things add up over time and cause horrible fights so best not to deal with them period.
kawigrl kawigrl
can't smell funky
FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
I'm shallow. I like attractive people. My biggest dealbreaker is being overweight. If I can get my ass to the gym a few times a week to look nice, then so can anyone else. I'm busier than hell and I still manage it. No excuses.
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I wouldn't date a man or woman that is overweight or has a big gut. I prefer my men incredibly muscular and my women to look like Victoria's Secret models.

I also don't want anyone with horrible teeth; I'm not distraught if his teeth aren't perfect, but he needs to at least brush them. If he's over 6'2" or under 5'4" , then I'm turned off. Bad smells are also a turn off, as well.
Kitka Kitka
Bad breath/teeth, bad smells in general and annoying mannerisms.
Shellz31 Shellz31
I wouldn't get involved with someone who is underweight - it's a major turn off. I know someone who has some meat and is cuddly - not a fan of hugging bones!
Eyes are a big thing too. Not so much in the colour, although I don't like hazel, green or black eyed guys. It's more so how gentle their eyes are. You can tell a lot about someone's eyes, as to what kind of character they have.

Nasty smelling is a major turn off too. I'm sensitive to foul smells.
I have no tolerance for partners with bad manners either.
dhig dhig
not to picky, though
MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
I haven't really ever met someone that smells bad all the time, but that would be a deal breaker for me.
Eliza Eliza
I feel really superficial filling that out. I had a lot of turn-offs, but that's not to say that I've never been with people who have those characteristics. They would just need a killer personality to make up for it. :]
ksparkles16 ksparkles16
bad breath and smelling
BlooJay BlooJay
They have to have good hygiene and good breath.
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
General good hygiene is a must. It'd be a little too hard to cuddle with someone who smelled bad. An annoying voice or personality would put me at a distance, as well as a lot of hair on the back and chest.
thelittlestdoc thelittlestdoc
I'm kind of surprised I voted for as many as I did. I like to think good personal hygiene/grooming is enough, but I'm rarely sexually attracted to people who are more than mildly overweight. The annoying voice/mannerisms are far worse, though!
Jaimes Jaimes
Smell/hygiene are essential. I also picked annoying voice. I think those stuck out to me because my husband is the exact opposite. Impeccable hygiene, smells amazing, and has a voice that makes Churchill sound like Mickey Mouse.
Crystal1 Crystal1
I definitely can't do too short or skinny. And one that's not on the list- nobody *too* into how they look. I don't want a man that takes longer than I do to get ready, or that spends hours and hours every day at the gym.
Badass Badass
LMAO, That was cute.
dbm6907 dbm6907
Basically, I look for somebody who has good personal hygiene and morals/standards that are comparable to my own.
Llahsram Llahsram
Too heavy, bad teeth, large gut.
edeneve edeneve
have you seen a hairy nose or ears??? ewwwwwwwwww!
woodsdragon woodsdragon
Good hygiene is very important but I also want someone on the same or relatively close maturity level too
Luca77 Luca77
I just chose the main ones for me. Being underweight and annoying mannerisms are huge deal breakers.
Pink Lily Pink Lily
I dated a guy who wouldn't for the life of him put his feet on the ground. He sat in the chair like a chipmunk with his knees by his chin at the restaurant. He also had "nice guy" syndrome, so it didn't last long.
wwwww wwwww
Any smells associated with being unhygienic. I'm easily turned off by people who don't take care of themselves.
WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I can deal with teeth that are a bit scraggly, but there's a point where it's too much for me. Also, a massive gut is.....really not to my liking.
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