Rachel ponders throwing out or packing away toys she's used with past loves. Do you attach sentimental value to toys you've used with your ex partners? Would you get rid of toys you use with your current partner if you parted ways?
What do you do with your "ex" toys?
11/03/2010
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I kept everything. As the way I see it, since I was WAY more interested in the stuff than she was, I'm entitled to it. Not a heck of a lot of sentimental value in the toys since they were all basically mine and solo-used anyway. But I can see some people having a hard time keeping them.
11/03/2010
Quite honestly, there was only two or three toys that I had with my ex and with my current fiance. None of them really got used with my ex that much, and neither my fiance or myself had a problem with using them together. If he had wanted me to buy a replacement of one or two of them so we could still use it, just not the one that got used with somebody else, I would have.
11/04/2010
The only toy I had before finding my current guy broke way before we met. Luckily I discovered Eden during our relationship, so lucky for him I am stocked with some sex toys. If things ever end, I wouldn't throw away my toys, mostly because I'm incredibly materialistic. Seriously. I'm a borderline hoarder. I love all my toys and plan on keeping them for as long as I can. I get more use out of his cock when we're together instead of my toys.
11/04/2010
Well, I've never been in this situation really because all the toys I've used with a partner have been with my husband. But, I can see getting rid of toys such as cock rings, or other partner toys.
11/04/2010
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This is what I was thinking. I think it would be weird to hand somebody new a cock ring that had been on a previous partner, and I am not sure the guy would appreciate it either.
Originally posted by
Alicia
Well, I've never been in this situation really because all the toys I've used with a partner have been with my husband. But, I can see getting rid of toys such as cock rings, or other partner toys.
11/04/2010
I think I only have one toy that is really sentimental. I have it, not him. I probably won't use it again but it is a bdsm toy which holds a bit more meaning for me.
11/05/2010
I get new ones for each partner.
09/02/2011
Kept everything, how is it any different than the real deal
09/04/2011
I never had toys with my ex but think if I had I would have tossed them and started over.
09/04/2011
Nothing I own reminds me of past partners, probably because I usually don't use toys in the bedroom (aside from alone!) or if I do it's not a personal "me and that particular person" thing. Haha. ^_^
09/05/2011
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