What do you look for personally.

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K-smith K-smith
When looking for a relationship on your own personal level what do you want above all else?
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K-smith, mnc5051, ~LaUr3n~, SexyTabby, Danielle915, Avant-garde, Kimbertrees, newbern2004, Spring, Destri, Sir, Lummox, Kindred, darthkitt3n, Sam (aka Jul!a), *HisMrs*, ToyTimeTim, Redboxbaby, Fuzzycow, HoneyHoney, awhirlwindlife, sbon, Shellz31, girl next door, Hotlink, Sohotdinosaur, Brandi Rouxxx, Solar Ray, TheSinDoll, SugarAndSpice, ❦Angel Of Music❦, zapperzepper, Mr.RightNow, sexyintexas, LavenderSkies, ichwillwaffels, TaylorVon, Michelle Menace, TumorCrunch, REDRUM, lovin, DreamWolf, Badass, Airen Wolf, SexyStuff, ksparkles16, Apirka, Kithara, shySEXXaddict, Trepier
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RosesThorns, Taylor, Fishie Princess, flamefire, Jessica Elizabeth, Tart, Emma (Girl With Fire), Hadespark, shelly8791, thrill, the other jo, zracer, SThr, tomservo1028, ImABarbieGirl, Eliza, TheHardOne, Jon S, kawigrl, Dnice, Lover of Leather, Form 7
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Trashley
Total votes: 73
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10/13/2010
K-smith K-smith
I personally believe that a Emotional connection can lead to all of the above. The feeling I most remember and loved from my previous relationship was how emotionally tied i was, The feelings I had were like ecstasy. And in such I believe if the feelings are strong enough than great sex and hopefully compatibility will follow well enough.
10/13/2010
SexyTabby SexyTabby
Yeah, a deep emotional connection is what I need. I would need that in order to be truly compatible and comfortable enough to have great sex.
11/11/2010
Alicia Alicia
In the end it's all important. An emotional connection is nice, but if you're not compatible otherwise it won't be able to last in the long run.

Great sex is awesome, and can keep the fire going, but if you're not compatible or emotionally connected it would only be physically great and not enough to make the relationship last.

Compatibility is good, but if you're not feeling that emotional connection and that fire for great sex it is kind of like just being friends..
11/11/2010
Danielle915 Danielle915
An emotional connection is very important.
11/11/2010
Kimbertrees Kimbertrees
As long as he can make me laugh he normally has me.
11/12/2010
flamefire flamefire
I haven't been in a serious relationship yet so I'm not completely sure on what I want in a guy yet. On the poll I chose great compadability, since thats always the first step to tell if we could have a lasting relationship.
11/27/2010
Sir Sir
Connection, definitely. The other things usually fall into place when that connection is there as the foundation.
11/27/2010
Trashley Trashley
At this point in my life, I can't afford a real relationship. I love deep emotional connections, but if you pair that with sex, all the sudden they want monogamy and time and blah blah blah, so for now, just shut up and fuck me or talk to me, but either way you gotta go home in an hour.
11/27/2010
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I think with my boyfriend it was about an emotional connection. We think a lot of the same things and have actually started to say the same exact thing at the same time sometimes.
11/27/2010
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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The emotional connection is always the easiest thing for me, compatibility on the other hand is difficult to find. I would say compatibility for me, because once I spend time with somebody I like one on one, there is almost always a great emotional connection. I am INSANELY empathetic though.
11/27/2010
RonLee RonLee
Better spelling of one, smart IS sexy, inattention to detail is NOT sexy.
01/17/2011
Sam (aka Jul!a) Sam (aka Jul!a)
Everything about a relationship for me is based on emotions. I've never been able to have sex with somebody I wasn't emotionally connected with, and when the emotional connection started to fade with past boyfriends, the sex quickly went out the window too. So for me to have a happy relationship, I need that deep emotional connection.
01/18/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
For me, it is not possible to have a deep emotional connection with someone, without great compatibility also. As far as the sex goes, without the connection and compatibility, the sex is just sex. I need all those things for the sex to be GREAT. Thank God I found all those things in my husband!
02/11/2011
HoneyHoney HoneyHoney
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Originally posted by K-smith
When looking for a relationship on your own personal level what do you want above all else?
Really it's not as simple as that. There has to be a lot of things or it just doesn't work, for me at least.
02/24/2011
thrill thrill
I think the compatibility is the most important, but I'm cheating and counting emotional compatibility under that. It's an odd question, though. All of these things are important.
02/24/2011
sbon sbon
A combination between emotional connection and compatibility are the most important for me, but they're all important factors among others.
02/26/2011
Happy Camper Happy Camper
All three really. I mean...I know some of my relationships definitely had a strong emotional connection without sex and with terrible incompatibility. And that was pretty miserable. And now my current relationship has great sex and great compatibility which to an extent includes emotions but I always get a little fuzzy when someone says "deep emotions". Is that basically saying love? Even that word is used differently. Is it the kind of one true love that we all idealize or a content trusting thrilled to be with them and laugh with them kind of love? It's an odd question.
02/26/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I require an emotional connection other wise nothing is going to happen!
02/26/2011
girl next door girl next door
emotional connection is key to a successful relationship. They also have to make me laugh
02/26/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
Emotional connection for sure... and if the sex is great, he's a true keeper, lol...
03/07/2011
Solar Ray Solar Ray
Emotionally connection... sexual spark... compatibility. They all play a part.
03/07/2011
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Chemistry and connection.
03/07/2011
Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
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Originally posted by TheSinDoll
Chemistry and connection.
agreed
03/08/2011
sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by K-smith
When looking for a relationship on your own personal level what do you want above all else?
I really want to answer all three!
03/10/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
An emotional connection.
03/12/2011
ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
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Originally posted by K-smith
When looking for a relationship on your own personal level what do you want above all else?
I think when you have a good emotional connection everything else just fits into place. It makes the sex great just being so connected and in love!
03/12/2011
ImABarbieGirl ImABarbieGirl
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Originally posted by K-smith
When looking for a relationship on your own personal level what do you want above all else?
Personality is a big one for me. If you cannot laugh at yourself - then I dont wanna be around you. I am such a blonde sometimes, that I cannot help but laugh. I even play it off... If you cannot laugh at yourself when you fuck up, why would I want to be around someone who is constantly down on themselves?? I prefer to be lighthearted, happy, and making people laugh/smile. Life is too short to be taken so seriously.
03/12/2011
Eliza Eliza
I don't think an emotional connection is really possible if you're not compatible.
03/14/2011
REDRUM REDRUM
I think all three of those in this order: Compatibility, deep emotional connection, then some awesome sex.
03/14/2011
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