What is the most people you have dated at the same time?

I don't think it's wrong at all. Right now I have my hubby and a girlfriend who I don't really see often.

At one point, I was married (not to my current hubby) and had 8 other people so 9 all together.

Most I had was in highschool and that was 3

After an ex cheated on me, I went on a dating rampage and ended up dating 6 guys at the same time(not sleeping with them). That was my max, and I don't see myself ever trying to be a player again..

Many years ago, I had three girlfriends at the same time. It was exciting at the time but damn was it exhausting. I was only able to keep it up for a couple of months.

I have only ever dated one person at a time

Two - we're a poly triad, so we all date each other. I enjoy it a lot. I don't think it's wrong as long as all the people involved are comfortable with it. It's only cheating if it's an action that breaks relationship boundaries, and you can design those boundaries with your partners however you want.