It's usually him, because honestly after a day with 6 kids (2 of which are toddlers) and . or my job as a nurse, I'm just wanting anything but to be touched at night. I just want to curl up and have some "me" time reading. LOL. It's better if we have some new, exciting toy, but after so many disappointments and the fact I'm broke right now, we're at a stalemate. Hope it's just a phase.