Who initiates sex most in your relationship?

Timaree Timaree
Is it all you, all them, a complex combination of back-and-forth?
08/06/2010
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Sir Sir
Combination, depending on our moods.
08/06/2010
NuMe NuMe
It's mostly me that initiates.
08/06/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
90% is me - I sure wish it was more even, but after 20+ years I'm not holding my breath for that change!
08/06/2010
Envy Envy
I guess my bf since he always pretty much wants it. But being long distance it's obviously just online stuff.
08/06/2010
kck kck
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Originally posted by Envy
I guess my bf since he always pretty much wants it. But being long distance it's obviously just online stuff.
Agreed. So, when we're together, BRING IT ON. We both go wild
08/06/2010
BoomersGirl BoomersGirl
It's usually him, because honestly after a day with 6 kids (2 of which are toddlers) and . or my job as a nurse, I'm just wanting anything but to be touched at night. I just want to curl up and have some "me" time reading. LOL. It's better if we have some new, exciting toy, but after so many disappointments and the fact I'm broke right now, we're at a stalemate. Hope it's just a phase.
08/06/2010
Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
Oh yeah, 90% me! And I sure wish it was the other way around sometimes, but I won't be holding my breath.
08/06/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Timaree
Is it all you, all them, a complex combination of back-and-forth?
Hell it's a very complex dance of me, him and him We share the "chore".
08/06/2010
MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
It's about half my boyfriend and half me. Both of us are easily persuaded though, so it doesn't take much initiating/convincing
08/06/2010
Blinker Blinker
I usually initiate sex by rubbing my boobs on him. He's a boob man, lol. When he initiates sex, he's so subtle about it, like when he throws me on the bed and grunts.
08/06/2010
Waterfall Waterfall
Depends on our moods, but I feel like my sex drive is a little more intense, so sometimes it seems like I am initiating more...
08/07/2010
sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
Usually hubby initiates it. About 90% of the time. But if I'm ever in the mood and initiate it myself, he never turns me down. Haha.
08/07/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
Me usually, since it's a crapshoot as to when I'm horny and he gave up trying to figure out when is the best time. I like it mid-afternoon, he likes it late at night when I'm sound asleep. We're out of sync in that regard.
08/07/2010
Apinkjellybean04 Apinkjellybean04
with being married for 6 years we can never get the timing right. but i would have to say it's more me that gets him to do it. but there has been times where he is the one.
08/07/2010
Liz2 Liz2
Difficult to say. I don't live full time w my b/f so when he is here, it is mutual.
08/07/2010
Sera Sera
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Originally posted by Timaree
Is it all you, all them, a complex combination of back-and-forth?
Most of the time me...sometimes him...Sometimes randomly he just has a hard on or he wants to make out...and we just ...do it.
08/07/2010
Envy Envy
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Originally posted by kck
Agreed. So, when we're together, BRING IT ON. We both go wild
Wish i could but I have low libido, another reason why I don't initiate it as much as he does.
08/07/2010
SexyySarah SexyySarah
It's a combination, it really just depends on who is in the mood, but it's pretty equal in our relationship
08/07/2010
Alicia Alicia
I think it's pretty equal for us actually.
08/07/2010
Dusk Dusk
Mostly him, actually.
08/07/2010
missmandy27 missmandy27
Good question. I would say it's a good combination of both my boyfriend and I. Although, I would bet he'd say I instigate a lot of it. lol I can't help it if my boyfriend is so hot it's hard to keep my hands off of him.
08/09/2010
timinus timinus
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Originally posted by missmandy27
Good question. I would say it's a good combination of both my boyfriend and I. Although, I would bet he'd say I instigate a lot of it. lol I can't help it if my boyfriend is so hot it's hard to keep my hands off of him.
Mandy damn near attacks her boyfriend...I have seen it happen.
08/09/2010
Harlequin Harlequin
both.
12/12/2010
rdytogo rdytogo
Hubby does more of it than I do.
12/12/2010
Shellz31 Shellz31
In past relationships it was mainly me. More than likely be the same for future relationships unless they have an over active sex drive.
12/15/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
He does
12/16/2010
nyc cpl nyc cpl
Quote:
Originally posted by Timaree
Is it all you, all them, a complex combination of back-and-forth?
Mostly he.
12/16/2010
misslady misslady
I let my partner do it since I think I'm in the mood way more often than he is
12/17/2010
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Lately it is mostly me since I am asking for it nearly every few hours! Not so for many, many years though.
12/17/2010
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