Who thinks its absolutely the guy you should always ask out the girl??

Gongsta Gongsta
what does everyone think?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
The males should ask out the females
nova2014 , Lavender*Moon
2  (3%)
The females should ask out the males
It doesn't matter
sexxxkitten , edeneve , Rossie , SMichelle , Khanner , ShadowedSeductress , indiglo , amplified to rock , Beck , LAndJ , theothers1 , Lildrummrgurl7 , table38792 , anonkitty , prttynink , JennSenn , bettle590 , damnbul12 , - Kira - , Lioncub , Kissy , gsfanatic , Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , darthkitt3n , solitudinarian , TiffyPixie , Trysexual , Incendiaire , Gone (LD29) , P'Gell , glasskitten , ellieprobable , Kitka , Vanille , Undecided , travelnurse , charletnarouh , pinkpottergirl , Bullfroggy and Rose , Leather & Lace , Karmababe , Stinkytofu10 , SilverMinxxx , AliMc , butts , GirlOnGirl , Flan-Flan Shazam , Sohotdinosaur , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , LovesAPoet , Aisling , SecretKinksters , Princess Zelda , kendra30752 , AK Bunny , mammas place , SavingMyself , Rraine , wildshores , Synthete , sktb0007 , null , shorejen9 , Chilipepper , LikeSunshineDust , xxSuzakuxx , Love Lula , GONE! , Cosmonaut , LoooveMonkey , souviet , novanilla
73  (97%)
Total votes: 75
Poll is closed
09/17/2012
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LAndJ LAndJ
I don't think it matters who does it. The world has changed, females can do it too.
09/17/2012
theothers1 theothers1
I don't know about absolutely, but I liked being asked. Absolutely seems a bit too rigid.
09/17/2012
anonkitty anonkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by theothers1
I don't know about absolutely, but I liked being asked. Absolutely seems a bit too rigid.
This. =] It's a lot safer (less likely to be rejected) being pursued of course, but nothing wrong with being the pursuer.
09/17/2012
prttynink prttynink
Forwardness is sexy. I think making the first move is very flattering and reassuring to the other person.
09/17/2012
JennSenn JennSenn
I liked to be asked, but that's personally preference. I think girls can ask out guys too.
09/17/2012
damnbul12 damnbul12
This day and age either is good.
09/17/2012
Lioncub Lioncub
I don't think it matters.
09/17/2012
Kissy Kissy
It doesn't matter at all. I am just too shy to ask a guy out! Good thing my hubs hit on me first!
09/17/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Doesn't matter, as long as someone asks.
09/17/2012
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Doesn't matter to me whatever people do in that sense.
09/17/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Doesn't matter to me whatever people do in that sense.
Indeed... ^^
09/17/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
I asked my boyfriend out. It doesn't matter. I find a lot of guys come on too strong, so I prefer to ask.
09/18/2012
TiffyPixie TiffyPixie
I don't think it matters.
09/18/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
Quote:
Originally posted by prttynink
Forwardness is sexy. I think making the first move is very flattering and reassuring to the other person.
I agree. We live in an equal society, doesn't matter who asks who.
09/18/2012
glasskitten glasskitten
I like being asked, but I also like to take initiative.
09/18/2012
ellieprobable ellieprobable
Also, sometimes the guy should ask out the other guy, etc.
09/18/2012
Undecided Undecided
Either or however I preferred to be asked
09/18/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
I really doesn't matter!!
09/18/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
I'm a lesbian, so it's always a girl doing the asking! But in hetero relationships, I think it shouldn't matter. Nor do I think the "butch" should always ask out the "femme" or any of that nonsense. Just do your thing. Same with opening doors and paying the check, etc. Don't stick to an antiquated ritual because it's what you think you're "supposed" do, just find what works for you and your partner. If it follows the convention, cool, but if not, equally cool. Don't follow convention for it's own sake, just do what makes you happy. Write your own rules.
09/18/2012
Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
I don't think it matters
09/18/2012
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
Either one.
09/18/2012
Karmababe Karmababe
either ... doesnt matter
09/18/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Gongsta
what does everyone think?
It doesn't matter
09/18/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
I don't think it matters.
09/19/2012
AliMc AliMc
Quote:
Originally posted by Gongsta
what does everyone think?
I think it doesn't HAVE to be the guy that asks the girl, but I definitely prefer it that way for me personally.
09/19/2012
butts butts
Definitely doesn't matter!
09/19/2012
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I think either is fine
09/19/2012
edenguy edenguy
As a guy i've always been the asker. I don't really mind or care.
09/19/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Either is fine.
09/19/2012
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Unique posters: 48