Ever since my man got back from Basic Training (Back in December '11) he's been so distant. Or well, it comes off that way. He doesn't want to hold my hand and he rarely ever wants sex anymore. He isn't the same person it seems. Maybe I'm taking it personally or seem too needy but it just hurts me. This is the same thing that happened with the last guy I dated (we were together almost 2 years)...he stopped being "cuddly" and wouldn't hold my hand or want to have sex with me in any way, he wouldn't text me or call me hardly. Idk, I just feel like pretty soon it's going to be an empty relationship. Has this happened to anyone else? Is it normal? I've tried talking to him about it and all he does is complain that I'm so needy and all this other crap and it really hurts my feelings.