Would you date someone in jail or prison?

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Would you date someone in jail or prison?

comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
If someone was in a jail or prison would you date them?
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Yes
4  (5%)
No
49  (67%)
other
20  (27%)
Total votes: 73
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05/28/2012
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Quote:
Originally posted by comatose-kitty
If someone was in a jail or prison would you date them?
No, unless he went there after(obviously certain charges I couldn't deal with)
05/29/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
What she said. If I knew them before, and it wasn't a violent charge....maybe. But I wouldn't start dating them if they were already in prison.
05/29/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
What she said. If I knew them before, and it wasn't a violent charge....maybe. But I wouldn't start dating them if they were already in prison.
Same.
05/29/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
no ive seen stories about this on tv and i think its insane
05/29/2012
joja joja
I wouldn't date anyone I had to be away from for extremely long periods of time, especially if I had to worry about their life/safety during that time. That includes people in the military, police officers, and felons.
05/29/2012
Terri69 Terri69
I wouldn't date someone in jail
05/29/2012
ksparkles16 ksparkles16
nope, not for me lol
05/29/2012
Peggi Peggi
If I was already dating them, yes.

If I didn't know them, I was single, and the crime wasn't for something I was highly against (animal abuse, child abuse or rape) then yes.

If I didn't know them, I was single and it was a crime I was highly against, then definitely not.
05/29/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by comatose-kitty
If someone was in a jail or prison would you date them?
Only under certain situations, but I wouldn't start out dating someone that was ALREADY in jail or prison.
05/29/2012
J5ive J5ive
No never
05/29/2012
nanamondoute nanamondoute
Anyone I date has to have a clean record. It just makes me wonder why they were ever in a situation where they could be put in jail. Unless it is an extremely stupid reason (and the judge needs to be fired), it's a giant no-no.
05/29/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
No. With the field I'm going into and getting a career in, this wouldn't look very good. I have standards for who I date and not having a record is one of them.
05/29/2012
Beck Beck
Jail and Prison are two different things. Jail is where you do short stays (usually less than one year) and prison is for the long term people. If you are going to prison, you did something to get you there. Jail can be something stupid (like public intoxication) and only holding you for a few days or even hours. I would date someone who has been to jail, but most likely NOT prison. It would really depend on the crime. But I know that most Jail's and Prison's are over crowded, so those with small time crimes (the ones I could deal with) would be offered rehab, anger management, other classes, probation, or house arrest over doing time. It would depend on what they were arrested for, if I was with them first. I wouldn't date someone who was in there when I meant them. My hubby has been arrested before. I have no problem with this. He never had to serve time because the charges were all dropped.
05/29/2012
hesteele09 hesteele09
To each its own really, my sons dad was in prision for 3 years and I stuck by him every day he was there only to break it off a month after he got out. My mom is married to a man who has life without parole. Its whatever your ok with I think.
05/29/2012
Badass Badass
No.
Unless I was dating the person and then they went to jail.
05/29/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
If I knew them or were dating them before they went to prison, and depending on the charge.
05/29/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by comatose-kitty
If someone was in a jail or prison would you date them?
No no no no never
06/12/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
If she went after we started dating, and depending on the charges, maybe
06/13/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by comatose-kitty
If someone was in a jail or prison would you date them?
If I was in love with someone, and then they went to jail or prison. I might provide support and love. I wouldn't date someone that's already in jail/prison though.
06/13/2012
xilliannax xilliannax
Quote:
Originally posted by comatose-kitty
If someone was in a jail or prison would you date them?
Depends on what they're in jail or prison for
If we were dating before
If they are getting out
If I believe they're guilty
07/29/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by comatose-kitty
If someone was in a jail or prison would you date them?
No! Never.
08/05/2012
novanilla novanilla
It really depends on the situation. I would never start dating someone who was in jail, but if I had a partner who went to jail afterward for certain crimes, yes. If I found out my partner was a pedophile and went to jail, definitely not. Theft to pay our bills? of course I would stay if I loved them and they weren't going to be there for the rest of our lives.
08/07/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
No thanks, not saying that I am perfect but, not interested!
08/07/2012
Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by comatose-kitty
If someone was in a jail or prison would you date them?
I don't see what the prison industrial complex has to do with dating. People are put in jail for all kinds of unjust reasons, but this "justice system" we have is more concerned about sentences than the degree of wrongdoing. Nobody is perfect.
08/07/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
I tend to stick to honest people with integrity. I've never had to worry about this. I have turned in an ex for abuse and I'm not keen on dating another abuser again.
08/07/2012
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
No, most likely not.
08/07/2012
SadoMas SadoMas
depends on what they were in for
08/10/2012
glitterbombs glitterbombs
Depends on the reason, how long they'd be there, and how well I knew them beforehand. If we have two dates and then you get life for assault? Hell no. If we've been together for years and you're in for a month for, idk, stealing out of necessity? Of course.
08/10/2012
woodsdragon woodsdragon
I think it all depends on the situation. I would have to know them prior and the length of the sentence/the crime itself would definitely play a factor in my decision.
08/11/2012
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