I have been in one before and did not like it. I like having time to myself, but not weeks on end to myself. I know I will never get into that kind of relationship again, which shouldn't be a problem since my boyfriend says he wants to get married soon.
Would you ever have a long-distance relationship?
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was in one for almost 3 years till i moved to be closer to her.. if this falls thru then NEVER AGAIN. to much trouble being so far from the one you love. it can work if you both work at it, but even if it turns out well, you feel kinda cheated by missing out on all the time you could have spent together if it weren't for distance.
Originally posted by
Sir
As a person who's currently in a long-distance relationship, I'd love to know everyone else's take on them.
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a ...
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a ...
As a person who's currently in a long-distance relationship, I'd love to know everyone else's take on them.
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a tough time dealing with the distance?
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a tough time dealing with the distance?
12/05/2010
I've been in three long distance relationships. The first was to an older guy, but I was too emotionally immature at the time, and I am now saddened that we no longer speak.
The second was to a much older man and that lasted nearly 4 years before I found it in me ot break up with him, he was much too negative and emotionally damaging to stay with though I was almost brainwashed into believing he was treating me well.
The third was with a guy I had actually met first, then we went home to our separate states and tried to make something of how we felt for eachother. it ended up being that I could not handle the strain of a LD relationship.
The second was to a much older man and that lasted nearly 4 years before I found it in me ot break up with him, he was much too negative and emotionally damaging to stay with though I was almost brainwashed into believing he was treating me well.
The third was with a guy I had actually met first, then we went home to our separate states and tried to make something of how we felt for eachother. it ended up being that I could not handle the strain of a LD relationship.
12/07/2010
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i have been in a few sometimes its a good thing sometimes its not
Originally posted by
Sir
As a person who's currently in a long-distance relationship, I'd love to know everyone else's take on them.
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a ...
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a ...
As a person who's currently in a long-distance relationship, I'd love to know everyone else's take on them.
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a tough time dealing with the distance?
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a tough time dealing with the distance?
01/18/2011
I've been in relationships where the guy lived only an hour away and ones where the guy lived 1000 miles away. As much as I've enjoyed all the relationships I've been in, I enjoyed the long distance relationships most. I felt they focused more on intellectual stimulation and emotional intelligence and I was more fulfilled because of it. My longest LDR was a bit over 7 years. I don't regret it one bit.
02/14/2011
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I agree with you. It does make the time you spend together more special, but i also wouldn't want to deal with that again, because the time apart really frustrated me lol
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
I have been in long distance relationships before and I was fine with them. Most of our relationship was like that and it made the summers and time together that much more special and appreciated.
I currently would not do it though.
I currently would not do it though.
02/14/2011
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My long distance relationship lasted a long time, but really did not work out and I do think it was because of the distance.
Originally posted by
Sir
As a person who's currently in a long-distance relationship, I'd love to know everyone else's take on them.
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a ...
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a ...
As a person who's currently in a long-distance relationship, I'd love to know everyone else's take on them.
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a tough time dealing with the distance?
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a tough time dealing with the distance?
02/19/2011
I'm currently in a LDR. At best we may be able to work 2 visits a year? I've got about 4 years until I can move closer, but if we're still together by then I'll move in a heartbeat. I figure if we can work that long with just online and phone, the relationship has serious potential to be a...regular distance relationship?
05/05/2011
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That commercial is just irritating.
Originally posted by
Miss Jane
I'm in a LDR, and it's HARD. We don't have the money to go traveling across the country every few weeks, so we don't get to see each other that much. I'm okay with it because I love him very much and want to be with him - but I definitely don't
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I'm in a LDR, and it's HARD. We don't have the money to go traveling across the country every few weeks, so we don't get to see each other that much. I'm okay with it because I love him very much and want to be with him - but I definitely don't *like* it. Sometimes, it's almost too much to take.
And as long as we're talking about it, that new car commercial where the girl is bragging about how her fiance drives 400 miles to see her every weekend PISSES ME OFF!!!! Sounds nice and romantic for the commercial, but that doesn't work in the real world and just makes the rest of us feel lousy.
And as long as we're talking about it, that new car commercial where the girl is bragging about how her fiance drives 400 miles to see her every weekend PISSES ME OFF!!!! Sounds nice and romantic for the commercial, but that doesn't work in the real world and just makes the rest of us feel lousy.
05/05/2011
I was currently in one as of yesterday but not anymore. Sadly it takes a toll, she's very emotional and eventually with typical day to day things problems arise an that little problem becomes exaggerated and we fight every night or every other day... and being far away from one another we cant really make up or speak on whats going on.. the distance creates an issue... As of now I would probably say I wouldn't be up for it again, the last few have always come out in failure..
05/06/2011
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I've never done the long distance thing. But in a few weeks I'll be moving 1,500 miles away from the boyfriend to begin earning a masters degree. I need love. This already hurts.
Originally posted by
Sir
As a person who's currently in a long-distance relationship, I'd love to know everyone else's take on them.
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a ...
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a ...
As a person who's currently in a long-distance relationship, I'd love to know everyone else's take on them.
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a tough time dealing with the distance?
How do they make you feel? Would you ever want to be in one, or have you already? Did you like the relationship, or did you have a tough time dealing with the distance?
05/21/2011
I've had a few long distance relationships an they're not quite easy sometimes. But if you can be strong enough to get through it til you guys make it work you guys will be that much stronger. I've just dealt with the partner being unfaithful an doing too much behind my back. But for the most part things were good. I've had one relationship going on for almost 6 yrs an 2 yrs we were doing the LDR. Things change an it truly depends on the couple an how you guys manage an go about your relationship. If there's a will there's a way an if you want it you'll shoot for the stars. But being together is just that much better but we do what we have to for our loved ones.
12/21/2011
