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Balanced Back Rubs in Your Relationship?
I am the receiver. It's not because I don't want to give my boyfriend back rubs. He just doesn't really like them. Plus, I NEED them. Periodically, he pushes on my back and rubs it in various spots. It's not actually pleasant, usually. But he does it because it helps with my chronic back pain. I'm only 22 and I live daily with pain that makes it hard to simply bend over and pick up a pencil or something without hurting.
02/17/2012
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oi that can't be good. Have you seen a doctor?
Originally posted by
Nazaress
I am the receiver. It's not because I don't want to give my boyfriend back rubs. He just doesn't really like them. Plus, I NEED them. Periodically, he pushes on my back and rubs it in various spots. It's not actually pleasant,
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I am the receiver. It's not because I don't want to give my boyfriend back rubs. He just doesn't really like them. Plus, I NEED them. Periodically, he pushes on my back and rubs it in various spots. It's not actually pleasant, usually. But he does it because it helps with my chronic back pain. I'm only 22 and I live daily with pain that makes it hard to simply bend over and pick up a pencil or something without hurting.
02/17/2012
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I am more likely to give but I have a realy bad nerve problem in my back that gets so bad that I cannot walk if certain muscles are manipulated and relaxed. Both of my guys have seen the effects and are understandably gun shy about doing a full back massage. Now leg, hand and arms they will do and I am so grateful!
Originally posted by
<3BF
Are you more likely to give or receive a back rub in your relationship?
02/17/2012
I give way more than I get! Part of it is Service, which I don't mind.
Part of it is he's always asking for back rubs, I mean, every day, several times a day. If he sees me sitting watching TV in the evening, he'll position himself in front of me so I can massage his back and neck with my feet. He begs for them morning and night. OK, he doesn't "beg" he just moans and says, "OMG, could you rub my back?" Then, he usually falls asleep.
When I want a back rub, and end up getting one, it nearly always results in sex. He can't seem to rub me without getting turned on. Not that I mid.
Part of it is he's always asking for back rubs, I mean, every day, several times a day. If he sees me sitting watching TV in the evening, he'll position himself in front of me so I can massage his back and neck with my feet. He begs for them morning and night. OK, he doesn't "beg" he just moans and says, "OMG, could you rub my back?" Then, he usually falls asleep.
When I want a back rub, and end up getting one, it nearly always results in sex. He can't seem to rub me without getting turned on. Not that I mid.
06/17/2012
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this sounds familiar. I get big hints about giving a backrub if I am ever nearby with a hand to spare. And then I do often try to progress into sex after that lol.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I give way more than I get! Part of it is Service, which I don't mind.
Part of it is he's always asking for back rubs, I mean, every day, several times a day. If he sees me sitting watching TV in the evening, he'll position ...
Part of it is he's always asking for back rubs, I mean, every day, several times a day. If he sees me sitting watching TV in the evening, he'll position ...
I give way more than I get! Part of it is Service, which I don't mind.
Part of it is he's always asking for back rubs, I mean, every day, several times a day. If he sees me sitting watching TV in the evening, he'll position himself in front of me so I can massage his back and neck with my feet. He begs for them morning and night. OK, he doesn't "beg" he just moans and says, "OMG, could you rub my back?" Then, he usually falls asleep.
When I want a back rub, and end up getting one, it nearly always results in sex. He can't seem to rub me without getting turned on. Not that I mid.
Part of it is he's always asking for back rubs, I mean, every day, several times a day. If he sees me sitting watching TV in the evening, he'll position himself in front of me so I can massage his back and neck with my feet. He begs for them morning and night. OK, he doesn't "beg" he just moans and says, "OMG, could you rub my back?" Then, he usually falls asleep.
When I want a back rub, and end up getting one, it nearly always results in sex. He can't seem to rub me without getting turned on. Not that I mid.
06/18/2012
My husband turns into a purring kitten when he gets his back rubbed. I do it all the time. It recharges his batteries when he gets any sort of back attention, and because of the physical size difference between us, it's like I'm Calvin curling up to his big tiger. I occasionally get back rubs, but I'm okay with the imbalance of back attention. It makes him so much happier than it does me.
06/20/2012
I'm terrible at them and have famously weak hands, so I started doing this more to get better. It's become such a habit that we do this more than other common signs of affection like hugging or kissing--but it's still maybe a once to thrice a day thing. I may do it a little more often than my partner. He has really strong hands and has to be careful!!
06/22/2012
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