I had a massage today. Not an erotic one, just a regular Swedish Massage. I was wondering how many of you get aroused by a stranger touching you during a massage. Also, does it matter to you if it's a man or a woman massaging you?
Do regular massages conjure up erotic thoughts for you?
08/16/2011
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Have never had a massage from a woman other than my brother's wife, and it didn't turn me on because she's my sister-in-law lol. Plus she's so good at it that it's hard to focus on anything but how good the massage itself feels. Plus she has a pretty firm hand and I get more turned on by light caresses.
08/16/2011
My roommate/ex is in school for massage therapy. He's like a brother to me. I usually get volunteered for his practice massages. He's really good at what he does, but it's more awkward for me. Yes, we had sex during our relationship, but not much at all. It's still weird for me even though he's a "professional".
08/16/2011
Mmm, I love a good massage. I suppose the main reason a massage always arouses me is because I have only ever received massages that end in sex. ^^;;
08/16/2011
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Nothing wrong with that!
Originally posted by
MeliPixie
Mmm, I love a good massage. I suppose the main reason a massage always arouses me is because I have only ever received massages that end in sex. ^^;;
08/16/2011
I get a massage nearly every night, and it mostly just puts me to sleep, no matter what is being massaged.
08/16/2011
My wife gives me massages when my back is real tight. Not usually to erotic though.
08/16/2011
I would think a lot of it depends on the relationship that the two people have anyway, if they naturally have a lot of sexual chemistry between them I think it's likely that massage might be erotic to them especially if they use it as a type of foreplay often. I think recipients pick up on intention that the giver is sending. So that might be healing or therapeutic, or it might be sexual. Even if few words are spoken receivers can pick up on what kind of massage you are trying to give and will often respond accordingly.
I know when I massage I act very clinical and work very hard to make sure I don't give out any sexual vibes at all. To me it is akin to going to a chiropractor or physical therapist and not at all sexy. I don't know if my clients have sexual thoughts when I'm working on them, but I doubt most of them do.
I always think it's funny when I get a new boyfriend and give them a massage for the first time, they ALWAYS seem to think it's going to be something sexy. Every time I've had them respond that it felt great but wasn't nearly as arousing as they thought it would be.
I know when I massage I act very clinical and work very hard to make sure I don't give out any sexual vibes at all. To me it is akin to going to a chiropractor or physical therapist and not at all sexy. I don't know if my clients have sexual thoughts when I'm working on them, but I doubt most of them do.
I always think it's funny when I get a new boyfriend and give them a massage for the first time, they ALWAYS seem to think it's going to be something sexy. Every time I've had them respond that it felt great but wasn't nearly as arousing as they thought it would be.
08/16/2011
I'll get aroused when I get a massage, but only if it's my husband. Though I can't remember the last person who gave me a massage who wasn't my husband.
08/16/2011
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Thats a cool perspective from a professional massage therapist! Thank you!
Originally posted by
Taylor
I would think a lot of it depends on the relationship that the two people have anyway, if they naturally have a lot of sexual chemistry between them I think it's likely that massage might be erotic to them especially if they use it as a type of
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I would think a lot of it depends on the relationship that the two people have anyway, if they naturally have a lot of sexual chemistry between them I think it's likely that massage might be erotic to them especially if they use it as a type of foreplay often. I think recipients pick up on intention that the giver is sending. So that might be healing or therapeutic, or it might be sexual. Even if few words are spoken receivers can pick up on what kind of massage you are trying to give and will often respond accordingly.
I know when I massage I act very clinical and work very hard to make sure I don't give out any sexual vibes at all. To me it is akin to going to a chiropractor or physical therapist and not at all sexy. I don't know if my clients have sexual thoughts when I'm working on them, but I doubt most of them do.
I always think it's funny when I get a new boyfriend and give them a massage for the first time, they ALWAYS seem to think it's going to be something sexy. Every time I've had them respond that it felt great but wasn't nearly as arousing as they thought it would be. less
I know when I massage I act very clinical and work very hard to make sure I don't give out any sexual vibes at all. To me it is akin to going to a chiropractor or physical therapist and not at all sexy. I don't know if my clients have sexual thoughts when I'm working on them, but I doubt most of them do.
I always think it's funny when I get a new boyfriend and give them a massage for the first time, they ALWAYS seem to think it's going to be something sexy. Every time I've had them respond that it felt great but wasn't nearly as arousing as they thought it would be. less
08/16/2011
I've only had one professional massage from a woman and had no problems with arousal. My wife and I do massages frequently - about 75% of the time they lead to sex.
08/17/2011
There's no 'other!' It really depends on my mood!
08/17/2011
I have never been aroused by a professional massage. That would be really creepy to me. Fortunately, any massage therapist I've got to has always been really professional, I would hope they're all that way. Now, a massage by my man is a whole different ball game... but that's intended to be erotic/sensual.
09/01/2011
A professional massage? NOOO. Never. My MOM is a massage therapist and gives me regular massages to help my aches and pains.
However when my partner massages me I know that we're both thinking dirty thoughts, so quite a different story.
However when my partner massages me I know that we're both thinking dirty thoughts, so quite a different story.
09/01/2011
I've only had a massage from my partner, no pro massage or anything. I really don't get very aroused from it Lol. Of course when he massages my back it turns into an ass massage! Lol. My sister and I were just talking about how back massages turn into ass massages or "FRONT MASSAGES!" As she called it angrily. Lol.
Anyways, if it's a dirty massage I get into that, but I usually just enjoy a back massage alone.
Anyways, if it's a dirty massage I get into that, but I usually just enjoy a back massage alone.
09/02/2011
I love massages done by professional masseuses, and I will not be aroused by them.
09/02/2011
I think if it's a personal massage then it's arousing, if it's a professional one then it not so much. I tend to think massages as foreplay ^^ Especially with candles and such (like afterglow). Show me a girl who wouldn't be turned on by that!
11/15/2011
I definitely get turned on during a massage from my fiancee!
11/15/2011
I get aroused from almost all massages that I receive; I've gotten them from lovers, my massage therapist, and my aunt. Note that I said almost all- I don't get aroused when my aunt, who is a professional, massages me.
However, when I go to my acupuncturist, I get aroused, even though I'm not sexually attracted to the man. He doesn't touch any necessarily sexual spots, but something about massaging my tummy and inner thighs sets me off.
However, when I go to my acupuncturist, I get aroused, even though I'm not sexually attracted to the man. He doesn't touch any necessarily sexual spots, but something about massaging my tummy and inner thighs sets me off.
11/16/2011
I can't say that I have ever become aroused during a massage but I think that has more to do with the fact that when a partner has given me one, it has been recently after sex and not as an element of foreplay. I get professional massages every few months and have never found them arousing, even on the rare occasions when I have had a male masseuse. Again I think its because I know that with a male professional that there is not even a chance of it leading to there that I just shut that part of my mind of to focus on relaxing to get the most out of what I am paying for.
11/16/2011
The only massage I get is from my wife so technically yes but since you're not including those i'll say no
11/16/2011
For me, it all depends upon if I was in actual pain before the massage because then, I'm concentrated purely on getting rid of the pain.
11/28/2011
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it depends on the person really
Originally posted by
AngelvMaynard
I had a massage today. Not an erotic one, just a regular Swedish Massage. I was wondering how many of you get aroused by a stranger touching you during a massage. Also, does it matter to you if it's a man or a woman massaging you?
11/28/2011
I sometimes do!
11/28/2011
I think I would get turned by a guy massaging me.
01/11/2012
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I've never had a woman massage me, but I can't think it would feel any less orgasmic. Mostly I just feel like moaning a lot. I'm sure I make some interesting faces
Originally posted by
AngelvMaynard
I had a massage today. Not an erotic one, just a regular Swedish Massage. I was wondering how many of you get aroused by a stranger touching you during a massage. Also, does it matter to you if it's a man or a woman massaging you?
01/17/2012
ALL of the massages my husband gives me end in a happy way.
01/20/2012
/Only aroused by massages from my husband
01/21/2012
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I'm a woman and DO NOT get aroused by massage.
Originally posted by
AngelvMaynard
I had a massage today. Not an erotic one, just a regular Swedish Massage. I was wondering how many of you get aroused by a stranger touching you during a massage. Also, does it matter to you if it's a man or a woman massaging you?
03/10/2012
Only when my husband does it
04/08/2012
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