He gets too horny!

sexyintexas sexyintexas
I love getting massages but they only last about 3 minutes because he gets too excited and cant wait! What to do?
03/13/2011
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leatherlover leatherlover
Maybe give him a quick orgasm before hand, and then the message will get him excited for round two.
03/13/2011
That Guy That Guy
Leatherlover was more creative than my solution: tell him to knock it off or you'll go to a professional for both services.
03/13/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
My boyfriend does that as well. I tend to not ask for massages if I know he's horny and if I do get them, it's after we've done things.
03/13/2011
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by leatherlover
Maybe give him a quick orgasm before hand, and then the message will get him excited for round two.
I think that sounds like a GREAT solution!
03/13/2011
Blooddragon Blooddragon
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
I love getting massages but they only last about 3 minutes because he gets too excited and cant wait! What to do?
In these instances I am very lucky. My wife usually gives me a blow job in the mornings so I can last longer for later sex or whatever we have in mind.
03/13/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I like Leatherlover's suggestion.
03/13/2011
Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I like Leatherlover's suggestion.
Same here.
03/14/2011
babychika babychika
Tie him down with restraints and tease him to death. After 20 mins he'll ravish you!
08/23/2011
socceras socceras
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Originally posted by That Guy
Leatherlover was more creative than my solution: tell him to knock it off or you'll go to a professional for both services.
i like this answer
10/03/2011
MstrSlvCouple MstrSlvCouple
Thats a good idea. Suck him off first and the massage will get him ready again.
11/23/2011
eeep eeep
Could tell him however many minutes he gives you a massage for you will do something that he loves for that many minutes.
11/24/2011
Girly Girl Girly Girl
massages
11/24/2011
GRRRRR GRRRRR
Take control of the situation...
12/11/2011
wes wes
Quote:
Originally posted by PiratePrincess
My boyfriend does that as well. I tend to not ask for massages if I know he's horny and if I do get them, it's after we've done things.
my gf does the same thing
07/10/2012
heather-mooney heather-mooney
Make him wait, or just massage you at the same time...haha
08/20/2012
sextoygeek sextoygeek
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
I love getting massages but they only last about 3 minutes because he gets too excited and cant wait! What to do?
Teach him that a massage does not mean he'll get sex or anything. I hate when a guy gives (usually even offers) a back rub and then expects something form me. Sorry, not happening.
08/20/2012
Rory Rory
My husband doesn't last long when doing massages hands on skin makes his blood boil!
11/06/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
Tell him no sex until he's done. Period.
11/06/2012
Nurse Katie Nurse Katie
I say go for the sex first, then get a massage afterwards. Make sure he promises to follow through though
11/06/2012
heather-mooney heather-mooney
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
I love getting massages but they only last about 3 minutes because he gets too excited and cant wait! What to do?
idk!
11/06/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by leatherlover
Maybe give him a quick orgasm before hand, and then the message will get him excited for round two.
It may sound good in theory - but once I have an orgasm, it's easy for me to loose interest. That's why I always make sure that my girl has 2-4 before I get started.

I'd suggest talking about it - and gently - but firmly extending the massage time before being responsive to more overt sexual moves.

Good luck.
11/07/2012
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