How do you and your lover do erotic massage?

ToyGurl ToyGurl
There are many types of massages out there... One of the most popular massages these days are different forms of erotic massages. These massages date back to ancient times, and are commonly found in the Kama Sutra.

My partner and I love to explore the world of erotic massage. We try to exclude me masturbating him, or him masturbating me. Although, sometimes that ends up happening. We do this when we want to take a fresh breath from sex, or to relieve stress after a long day on base/at school/at work.

He starts out with a good massage oil of choice, and starting with the female (this is how I was told to do so, since females often take more work) and he works from the outer limbs to the inner parts of the body. This includes shoulders, breasts, tummy, back, buttocks, outer labia, and then sometimes clitoral and inner labia massage. Rarely G-Spot, but sometimes.

Then you start basically the same way with the male (if your partner is a male) and I move from outer limbs (he is soooo ticklish on his feet that I actually avoid them most of the time) into his chest, neck, back, buttocks, perineum, scrotum, penis MASSAGE, and then possible masturbation. He starts out really hard, but I love when he gets to the point of relaxation that he is not erect. He has actually orgasmed without being erect or ejaculation and he claims they are the best orgasms he has ever had. Every now and then when he lets me, I like to do a prostate massage for his health and fertility reasons. He is a little insecure still about his bum, usually when he hasn't trimmed his hair but I try to get him as relaxed as possible to where he doesn't care.

Then, after the massage we practice a sort of position that seems sexual, but does not involve penetration, or even rubbing. I sit on his lap with my legs wrapped around his waist, facing him. We lock eyes and begin to massage one another, anywhere from 30 minutes to hours. This is when we really have the tendency to climax without even having sex. We scratch each other's body lightly, stroke each other, rub one another, etc. We have even used the tickling feathers, but we really like to avoid any tools or toys.

To finish it off, we take a nice warm bath and we almost always fall asleep in the tub. It's an amazing way to finish a night. I was curious if any other people practice this type of massage, or other variations/methods. My fiance is coming home tomorrow and I want to mix it up just a little bit. Maybe just doing a general massage would do the trick, or a new massage oil. We usually use a variation of this oil link. But I bought a few new massage oils from eden and a massage shop down the road from our home.

So let me know what you guys practice, if you practice any massage at all! And what types of oils/creams/lotions do you use?
05/04/2011
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yatinp30 yatinp30
cool
05/09/2011
tiname25 tiname25
hand is the best
05/09/2011
hotcoktail hotcoktail
ya nothing better than hands .
05/10/2011
emiliaa emiliaa
That was just...really hot to read. Heheh. We really just rub each other's shoulders a little bit and cuddle, I would really LOVE to do something like what you described. Time to show my lover that post!!! XD
06/09/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
Quote:
Originally posted by emiliaa
That was just...really hot to read. Heheh. We really just rub each other's shoulders a little bit and cuddle, I would really LOVE to do something like what you described. Time to show my lover that post!!! XD
Please do! If you have any questions or need any tips, please private message me anytime. I love to help anywhere I can! I'm very friendly, and I can tell you are too, so feel free to stop by my profile!
06/09/2011
emiliaa emiliaa
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Please do! If you have any questions or need any tips, please private message me anytime. I love to help anywhere I can! I'm very friendly, and I can tell you are too, so feel free to stop by my profile!
Thanks so much! Now let me figure out how to follow/add you too. ^_^
06/09/2011
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