is it worth it?

paralax paralax
i seem to get tired after a massage. i end up not wanting to have sex just fall asleep? so is it worth it? is it just me? am i weird or something? does anyone else get tired after?
09/10/2010
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PurpleBerry PurpleBerry
This has happened to me before. I was way too relaxed.
09/11/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by paralax
i seem to get tired after a massage. i end up not wanting to have sex just fall asleep? so is it worth it? is it just me? am i weird or something? does anyone else get tired after?
There is a different technique for erotic massage than for a relaxing massage! Might be worth it for you and your partner to check out some of the books and videos about erotic massage for lovers. That should help with the fatigue after a massage.
09/11/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We have a massage routine that gets very intimate - by the time I'm done with my massage she's begging for me to penetrate her. She loves it when I massage her 'pressure points'. Not sure if there is such a thing - but essentially it involves a fairly deep massage to the area where her legs and torso meet - inevitably the next step is a vulval massage then......
09/11/2010
sbon sbon
It really depends on the type of massage. There are certain techniques that are supposed to be relaxing and others that are meant to be erotic!
11/05/2010
Shellz31 Shellz31
I find massages too relaxing but then I haven't had an erotic massage.
11/06/2010
darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
i seem to get tired after a massage. i end up not wanting to have sex just fall asleep? so is it worth it? is it just me? am i weird or something? does anyone else get tired after?
Its normal to get tired. maybe sex first then massage?!
12/09/2010
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Been there. I agree that it depends on the type of massage.
12/10/2010
J's Alley J's Alley
Different massage techniques release different chemicals. You need to know where to massage and how to do it to get the desired outcome.
12/10/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
i seem to get tired after a massage. i end up not wanting to have sex just fall asleep? so is it worth it? is it just me? am i weird or something? does anyone else get tired after?
I also fall asleep during massages!
12/20/2010
Oxygen99 Oxygen99
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Originally posted by darkkitty
Its normal to get tired. maybe sex first then massage?!
My husband insists on this! He knows if he gives me a massage first that I'm apt to fall asleep and be done for the night.
12/21/2010
menotu menotu
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
There is a different technique for erotic massage than for a relaxing massage! Might be worth it for you and your partner to check out some of the books and videos about erotic massage for lovers. That should help with the fatigue after a massage.
Great answer airen
12/29/2010
ana123 ana123
Massages tickle to much for me to fall asleep! Besides me and my SO always do them naked and it's hard to fall asleep with his dick poking me in the bum. lol
12/29/2010
RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
Sometimes it relaxes me, sometimes it turns me on... sometimes both! It just depends on how I'm feeling and what he's doing. Either way, we both get some enjoyment out of them and that's all that's important.
01/06/2011
ScottA ScottA
Depends on the massage. Try mixing the type of massage that relaxes you enough to fall asleep with other, erotic, massage that focuses on your erogenic zones.
01/06/2011
Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
I guess it depends on the intent....are you using massage as foreplay? There is nothing wrong with being so relaxed that you fall asleep if you are just being intimate with your partner. If you are using massage as foreplay, I would concentrate more on errogenous zones with firmer touch rather than a full body uber-relaxing massage. Have fun!
01/06/2011
ImABarbieGirl ImABarbieGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
i seem to get tired after a massage. i end up not wanting to have sex just fall asleep? so is it worth it? is it just me? am i weird or something? does anyone else get tired after?
I often ask my husband for a massage, even before sex. In order to keep me from falling asleep, he will massage my ass, and my inner and outer thighs, and it just turns me on LOL So then I gotta! LOL
02/20/2011
Eden C. Eden C.
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
i seem to get tired after a massage. i end up not wanting to have sex just fall asleep? so is it worth it? is it just me? am i weird or something? does anyone else get tired after?
Totally worth it. I love massages. Honestly, I prefer them to most sex.
02/23/2011
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