Do you prefer exchanging massages before or after sex?

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Do you prefer exchanging massages before or after sex?

liilii080 liilii080
I just want to cuddle after so before is a must.
01/07/2011
PlayfulPisces87 PlayfulPisces87
After, always. I need the wind-down time. I'll give before, but I'd rather receive after. Getting a massage isn't a turn on for me.
01/07/2011
Akikaze Akikaze
Always before. Getting nice and relaxed, then you touch each other in such a manner it starts a fire.
01/08/2011
KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Depending on our mood, sometimes my boyfriend and I do massages before sex and sometimes we do them after sex. I know that a nice sensual massage is an awesome turn on pre-sex but damn does it ever feel good after! I was just wondering what other ...
I don't see why you cant do both.
01/11/2011
KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Not a single person has voted for after yet lol I guess I should have mentioned that my bf broke his back when he was 13 and he has rods in there. That's one of the main reasons that we started doing massages after. Sex bothers his back a bit so ...
As a professional, you can give a simple one before as foreplay and if you have the energy for it after (most seem not to) then go ahead and give after.
01/11/2011
KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Depending on our mood, sometimes my boyfriend and I do massages before sex and sometimes we do them after sex. I know that a nice sensual massage is an awesome turn on pre-sex but damn does it ever feel good after! I was just wondering what other ...
Also, if you are into the rougher side of things, after makes for a good "cool down" and after care. It really depends on what your needs, personal preferences, and energy levels are.
01/11/2011
sweet seduction sweet seduction
A massage before sex is so sensual and sets just the right tone. I love it!
01/19/2011
vegan.guy vegan.guy
I usually give my girlfriend a massage before sex.
01/30/2011
thedude thedude
deff before
01/31/2011
Crystal1 Crystal1
I like before, for the relaxation, and because I'm usually way too exhausted after!
01/31/2011
onehotmomma onehotmomma
Before, it's a great turn on.
02/06/2011
sixfootsex sixfootsex
Massage as afterplay for the win.
02/11/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
I voted before, but really it's before and after most of the time.
02/11/2011
zeebot zeebot
Before, I'm too tired for anything but cuddling after.
02/14/2011
shirley15461 shirley15461
cool
03/08/2011
Alyjazz Alyjazz
I like them before AND after I'm a little greedy I guess. We usually do them before and cuddle after instead though, which is nice too.
03/08/2011
Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
Hmmmm....... in my ideal fantasy world, I would like massages as interludes between rounds of fucking.
03/09/2011
sexy19364 sexy19364
We do both. Before, to warm things up, and after, to rub out sore muscles.
03/11/2011
gladiola gladiola
Definitely before, sometimes it's a great way to get things started
03/13/2011
Love&War Love&War
always before... it gets us really warmed up
03/25/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
I've always done it as a before thing.
04/06/2011
LAndJ LAndJ
My guy almost always falls asleep after sex. Sometimes massages come before and turn into sex.
11/28/2011
ijako9 ijako9
Before! I think everytime for us has been before
11/29/2011
GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
We're usually way too tired afterward,and it's a permanent part of foreplay for us. I'm so damned tense all the time (Why hello random neck,foot, leg cramp, how are you today?) ,it helps me relax and has a bonus side effect of turning me on. =D
11/29/2011
Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by Emily!
Depending on our mood, sometimes my boyfriend and I do massages before sex and sometimes we do them after sex. I know that a nice sensual massage is an awesome turn on pre-sex but damn does it ever feel good after! I was just wondering what other ...
I think we'd run out of energy after sexytime
01/17/2012
Swish Swish
Before, most definitely, it sets a good mood even if it is more relaxing it can easily turn erotic with the right kind of touching. after sex is just too much of a release as it is. and its tiring.
01/26/2012
Graniteal Graniteal
Definitely before
01/30/2012
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
A massage is the best form of foreplay for my wife I think. Afterwards would seem a little weird.
01/30/2012
voenne voenne
Definitely before. It's helpful to relax and get in the mood. And again afterwords doesn't hurt either!
01/30/2012
Teacookie Teacookie
only after if some one gets cramps.
01/30/2012
Total posts: 83
Unique posters: 79