What's better, giving or getting?

Fanny Fanny
Do you prefer giving your lover a massage, or getting one? Or BOTH?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I love getting massages.
Coralbell , Envy , DeliciousSurprise , Passionate Pastor , Sammi , Fanny , jakjak , Mr. E , *Country Girl Can Survive* , LikeSunshineDust , mrs.mckrakn , patndon , wondertoes , Tart , Midway through , darthkitt3n , sbon , StrangerStill , menotu , Xavier7 , MrRainybowbow , swf , x cherri , SexyStuff , kawigrl , PassionQT , shirley15461 , gladiola , Rossie , GravyCakes , Ms. Spice , Keegski , tickle me pink , Elnoa , MJ1337 , EJ , jay28 , duff , Mew , Jon S , lalapetitee , pixxie87 , chibi1091 , Sohotdinosaur , godweensatan , link82 , freda , queergaze , Peggi , tami , Nurse Katie , Rory , nann
53  (21%)
I love giving massages.
Sbear89 , P'Gell , Jimbo Jones , ToyTimeTim , lunapixie , petite-n-sweet , Research , Shellz31 , puffkix , Mertvaya , Moein , markeagleone , Dlynn , mama2007 , Lady Marmelade , slynch , TantricNewbie , Musings , Silverdrop , Faust , TheHardOne , klyte , Apirka , Highmaintenancegirl916 , Nyx (Under the Covers)
25  (10%)
I love both!
Sir , sexysweetieshan , Darling Jen , TheSexista , NuMe , aleong , Andromeda , Airen Wolf , VampKitty , Kindred , joja , Gunsmoke , Red Vinyl Kitty , Lady Venus , asdfg , Liz2 , Liz , Annemarie , softkkisses , deltalima , Naughty Student , Waterfall , new southern girl , MEL , TechyDad , PurpleBerry , RadRach , Persephone Nightmare , SexyySarah , Viktor Vysheslav Malkin , Madeira , CutiePatootie , ReadyAllTheTime , ScottA , OhMy! , MyWifeExposed , lovehurts , Yiggi , Lummox , Selective Sensualist , lilly555 , ZenaidaMacroura , leatherlover , Taylor , Spring , Faith , moonlitlilly , SexyTabby , EmberPetals , sausagelover , tits only , RemusHalifax , C4ss , LavenderSkies , Nicky , ToxicHeart , moonch1ld , *HisMrs* , Danielle915 , deae04 , 7Miles , The Awesome Penguin , Angel deSanguine , Amber Rahne , staceejaxxx , KatPawz2003 , Respectable Curiosity , Orion , Penguin , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , sweet seduction , thatonegirl , Mr.RightNow , vegan.guy , pinkcupcakes , thedude , VenusianThunder , I Wear The Pants , 16one94@gmail.com , Choolz , NaturalWoman , jankit , al16 , sixfootsex , zeebot , Alyjazz , xoflxokcxo , jfree , RonLee , ellejay , Love&War , MaryExy , Ghost , kittychilla , Donord , Novs , Starrr , Nando , stlouisxxx , Gigi128 , sarki , Bignuf , newfoundlust , Teagan Shepard , Miss Nessa , ejrbrndps , kelaaa33wish , lovemuscle n cookie , angel142stx , Jenyana , Endocott , potstickers , That Man from Mars , ijako9 , AndroAngel , Anonymous.Brunette , wrecklesswords , jeangel246 , rockopera , Lime , SMichelle , GRRRRR , Howells , alistair , ninja250 , Collogue , CamelliaGirl , SexyMojito , Lacey Fennec , cburger , hippie , AJvil , dbm6907 , hall5885 , Undead , comatose-kitty , SJ88 , PropertyOfPotter , Mamastoys , VelvetDragon , Mistress Sassy , humpday , Chami , Ly-Ra , petname , Sam I Am , roskat , d.wooldridge , ghalik , Double Analysis , sexykiss , Noelle , Andrew1992 , Fluffy Snuggles , xxSuzakuxx , featherhead , kkybf
157  (63%)
I would love giving massages more if I was better at it.
Hannah Savage , Sera , mariah , Smitty , [Red] , Sinfully , samanthalynn , konicaguy
8  (3%)
I would love getting massages more if he/she was better at it!
Pleasure Piratess , NightNight , SydVicious , Jenniae09 , GeekWife , hysteriaremedy , mistre$$ , JRabbits
8  (3%)
Total votes: 251
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Coralbell Coralbell
My guy likes giving massages and I like getting them.
08/24/2010
TheSexista TheSexista
I had to select both because I love a good massage but also love to give them to my hubs!
08/24/2010
Sbear89 Sbear89
I'm a giver I love to please my man.
08/24/2010
NuMe NuMe
I said both, but I probably prefer giving a bit more than getting one.
08/24/2010
Envy Envy
I like to get but am not very good at giving them....
08/24/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
I am told by My Man I give the best massages. I think I just KNOW him so well. I occasionally get a massage, but he's often too rough, and I don't want a rough....massage.

I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.

The other night, I was sitting in the chair in our bedroom, massaging him with my feet, his neck and back etc. He fell asleep and fell over on the floor. (very sophisticated, My Man) And after trying to wake him up, which is like trying to wake the dead, I went to bed. I looked over and saw he was snuggling something, under his head. He had fallen onto my bra, which I tossed onto the floor, and the cup was cradling his head, and he was snuggling like it was his Lovey. Very cute. I wish I had thought to get the camera or my phone to take a picture.
08/24/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I am told by My Man I give the best massages. I think I just KNOW him so well. I occasionally get a massage, but he's often too rough, and I don't want a rough....massage.

I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.

The ... More
OMG That must have been sooooo CUTE! My guys do things like this all the time. I will try to wake Arch and he will agree with me that he needs to get up and then insist on me giving him about 3 hours. It's always 3 hours...no idea why.
08/24/2010
Fanny Fanny
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I am told by My Man I give the best massages. I think I just KNOW him so well. I occasionally get a massage, but he's often too rough, and I don't want a rough....massage.

I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.

The ... More
Hahaha too funny!
08/24/2010
Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
Because of a skiing injury, my hand tends to cramp up very quickly but I love to get a massage when we have the time!
08/24/2010
joja joja
I absolutely love both. My boyfriend has pretty frequent back pain, so it's a great way to help him sleep or unwind when he's had a bad day. I love sitting on his butt and talking to him while I touch him.

For getting, my favorite time is right after an orgasm. Best afterplay ever.
08/24/2010
Sammi Sammi
I'd prefer to get a massage, but I don't mind giving them.
08/24/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I do a lot more giving than receiving - but enjoy both.
08/24/2010
NightNight NightNight
I enjoy giving a good massage but part of why I offer them is because I want him to learn a thing or two!!!
08/24/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I have more fun giving them than receiving. The wife just does not have the hands for it.
08/24/2010
SydVicious SydVicious
I am pretty good at giving massages, if I do say so myself. lol My husband on the other hand is terrible. I wish he was better at it because I love getting massages.
08/24/2010
Fanny Fanny
fortunately, he likes GIVING more than getting, and i'm the opposite way.
08/25/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by SydVicious
I am pretty good at giving massages, if I do say so myself. lol My husband on the other hand is terrible. I wish he was better at it because I love getting massages.
Guide him - if he has an interest I'm sure he'll be a quick study!
08/25/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I have more fun giving them than receiving. The wife just does not have the hands for it.
Likewise my wife's hands are rather small and not very strong. We bought the JimmyJane Contour 'M' massage stone. It lets the massager use their weight and not tire out their hands.
08/25/2010
Annemarie Annemarie
I'd rather give a massage than get a massage, but I'm selfless like that.
08/25/2010
softkkisses softkkisses
I'm better at it than my husband but he is getting better with practice
08/31/2010
deltalima deltalima
I love both but I much prefer getting a massage.
08/31/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I love both, but I tend to give more than I recieve. My man works very physically and he tends to get sore muscles so I am constanlty massaging him. I'm such a good girlfriend, lol.
08/31/2010
new southern girl new southern girl
I do like to give them but I get upset when it takes forever to get one in return!!
09/04/2010
PurpleBerry PurpleBerry
A set of strong hands works wonders for me.
09/11/2010
Mr. E Mr. E
I love, love getting massages. Unfortunately, I am not good at giving them. My wife says that I am too gentle and that I need more practice.
09/11/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
OMG That must have been sooooo CUTE! My guys do things like this all the time. I will try to wake Arch and he will agree with me that he needs to get up and then insist on me giving him about 3 hours. It's always 3 hours...no idea why.
I came to bed after going to the bathroom the other night, and My Man had rolled over into my spot, I CANNOT sleep in his spot. (And I hate his alarm clock, which I bought him.) So, I kept nagging him to MOVE! Eventually, he rolled over and then said, sound asleep, "I'll need a charge number for all that work. Do you have it?" (He has to use "charge numbers" for his projects at work.) So, I said, "Yeah, charge 846." He said, "OK, thank you." and went back to sleep.

Funny men. Three hours. yeah. That sounds like what I think when My Man's alarm goes off at 4:30 AM.
09/11/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Fanny
Hahaha too funny!
Yeah, he's classy, ain't he?
09/11/2010
Jenniae09 Jenniae09
My guy has huge back muscles so it takes me a lot of work to actually give him a good back massage. So I usually like to get one if I give him a massage. I usually start and half the time he falls asleep and never returns the favor lol. But when he does he goes too deep where it hurts so I just find it more rewarding to see a smile on his face by letting him relax and get a good massage.
09/11/2010
LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
I love getting them and I would love giving them more if my hands didn't get sore from it. Oils help a bit there though.
09/11/2010
Total posts: 137
Unique posters: 125