I love to give my man back massages or even body massages for that matter... but I am never on the receiving end of things. I have said many times how nice it would be for him to give me a massage, but yet it never happens. What can I do?
When is it my turn?
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Just ask! Usually people don't give massages because they think they're no good. Just encourage him and ask for one.
Originally posted by
Amanda(Secret)
I love to give my man back massages or even body massages for that matter... but I am never on the receiving end of things. I have said many times how nice it would be for him to give me a massage, but yet it never happens. What can I do?
10/14/2009
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Funny - I have the same problem - but in reverse! If I don't ask it isn't going to happen - so I just ask! Men are so practical!
Originally posted by
Amanda(Secret)
I love to give my man back massages or even body massages for that matter... but I am never on the receiving end of things. I have said many times how nice it would be for him to give me a massage, but yet it never happens. What can I do?
10/14/2009
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So I got a love lotion to do a review on, and it isn't a massage oil, but it did the job. I had the perfect excuse to get a nice rub down. It was amazing!
Originally posted by
Amanda(Secret)
I love to give my man back massages or even body massages for that matter... but I am never on the receiving end of things. I have said many times how nice it would be for him to give me a massage, but yet it never happens. What can I do?
10/30/2009
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Ask! and communicate!
Originally posted by
Amanda(Secret)
I love to give my man back massages or even body massages for that matter... but I am never on the receiving end of things. I have said many times how nice it would be for him to give me a massage, but yet it never happens. What can I do?
12/09/2010
I also am almost never on the receiving end... I'm lightly trained in massage so I'm usually the giver... But until I can teach him the basics I probably won't be asking for massages, he's much stronger than he realizes and I have a bad back, an often uncomfortable combination when receiving a massage myself ^^;;
Actually could someone give me a little advice on how to tell him he sometimes hurts me when he massages me, and needs to figure out what he's doing first? He'll feel so terrible if I just say it... Help me be gentle with my boy's feelings please...?!
Actually could someone give me a little advice on how to tell him he sometimes hurts me when he massages me, and needs to figure out what he's doing first? He'll feel so terrible if I just say it... Help me be gentle with my boy's feelings please...?!
02/27/2011
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My guy is the same way. Its very frustrating.
Originally posted by
Amanda(Secret)
I love to give my man back massages or even body massages for that matter... but I am never on the receiving end of things. I have said many times how nice it would be for him to give me a massage, but yet it never happens. What can I do?
05/07/2011
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That is great! I am so happy for you! Just make sure you let him know what feels good as he is doing it. It is like telling a little kid they did good, and they will do it again
Originally posted by
Amanda(Secret)
So I got a love lotion to do a review on, and it isn't a massage oil, but it did the job. I had the perfect excuse to get a nice rub down. It was amazing!
05/12/2011
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Try just letting him know next time he starts giving you one. Let him know that you love how enthusiastic he is but that sometimes he is over enthusiastic, and without even minor training he leaves you hurting more than when you guys started. But be honest and let him know, if you don't then he will wonder what else you are keeping from him, OR be hurt thtat you felt like you couldn't tell him...
Originally posted by
MeliPixie
I also am almost never on the receiving end... I'm lightly trained in massage so I'm usually the giver... But until I can teach him the basics I probably won't be asking for massages, he's much stronger than he realizes and I have a bad back, an
...
I also am almost never on the receiving end... I'm lightly trained in massage so I'm usually the giver... But until I can teach him the basics I probably won't be asking for massages, he's much stronger than he realizes and I have a bad back, an often uncomfortable combination when receiving a massage myself ^^;;
Actually could someone give me a little advice on how to tell him he sometimes hurts me when he massages me, and needs to figure out what he's doing first? He'll feel so terrible if I just say it... Help me be gentle with my boy's feelings please...?!
Actually could someone give me a little advice on how to tell him he sometimes hurts me when he massages me, and needs to figure out what he's doing first? He'll feel so terrible if I just say it... Help me be gentle with my boy's feelings please...?!
I hope this helps!! Good luck!!!
05/12/2011
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i wish i new.i always get latter but latter never comes
Originally posted by
Amanda(Secret)
I love to give my man back massages or even body massages for that matter... but I am never on the receiving end of things. I have said many times how nice it would be for him to give me a massage, but yet it never happens. What can I do?
05/15/2011
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