Why do I not like foreplay?

AAE1990 AAE1990
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I'm 22 and I don't find foreplay very... well arousing... I pretty much just want to get to where my partner is, remove most of our clothes, and have sex. I have a suspicion it's because I'm not in a relationship with the person I'm sleeping with... I don't know if it's just a temporary brain thing or if I just really don't enjoy it anymore.
03/04/2013
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Mwar Mwar
Everyone's different. So long as you and your partner communicate this and find a way to make both people happy, it'll be fine.
03/04/2013
AAE1990 AAE1990
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Originally posted by Mwar
Everyone's different. So long as you and your partner communicate this and find a way to make both people happy, it'll be fine.
Thank you for reading. That was a really nice comment. I appreciate it.
03/04/2013
ValerieRayne ValerieRayne
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Originally posted by AAE1990
I'm 22 and I don't find foreplay very... well arousing... I pretty much just want to get to where my partner is, remove most of our clothes, and have sex. I have a suspicion it's because I'm not in a relationship with the person ... More
Definitely not broken... There are a lot of times when I could care less to mess around with foreplay. Firstly, I'm always turned on, so what's the point of winding me up more?!? On top of that, I've got 4 kids and very full days and a boyfriend who works long hours that leave him exhausted at the end of the day - the shorter I can make the sex, the more likely I am to get it (refer to point number one for the importance of getting it...).

Like @Mwar said, everyone's different. Some people like to have more foreplay than sex, some people like to have more sex than foreplay and some (myself included) could really care less.

Though that's not to say that I don't agree with @Mwar's second point, that communication really is key. And don't be afraid to say to your partner that you just don't care so much about the foreplay (and instead care more about all the sex and orgasms...). For all you know, they don't care about the foreplay either...
03/04/2013
AAE1990 AAE1990
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Originally posted by ValerieRayne
Definitely not broken... There are a lot of times when I could care less to mess around with foreplay. Firstly, I'm always turned on, so what's the point of winding me up more?!? On top of that, I've got 4 kids and very full days and a ... More
I just don't want to hurt anyone's feelings haha. Thanks for reading and for the awesome reply.
03/05/2013
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