I need tips on how to enjoy giving a blowjob more... my jaw starts hurting and i get kind of bored to be honest and he takes foreverrrrr.
any tips
12/15/2011
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Other than flavorings, I can't think of anything.
If it's something you're not into doing, maybe you should talk to your partner about it. Nothing's worse than wasting time doing something that frustrates both partners.
I had this problem for the longest time. Eventually, I just gave up on it and realized I had issues I wasn't aware of preventing me from enjoying it "all the way".
If it's something you're not into doing, maybe you should talk to your partner about it. Nothing's worse than wasting time doing something that frustrates both partners.
I had this problem for the longest time. Eventually, I just gave up on it and realized I had issues I wasn't aware of preventing me from enjoying it "all the way".
12/15/2011
acessorie: For some guys, blow jobs aren't their thing. And for some girls, giving blow jobs just isn't their thing.
Out of the three people I've given head to, there was only one I enjoyed doing it for. Two of them never orgasmed from oral sex and had to finish up another way. They liked it, but viewed it more as foreplay than real sex. And I knew that it wasn't doing a whole lot for them, so I didn't see why I should be putting in all that effort.
The person who made giving head enjoyable for me was someone who really really likes getting head. He's super enthusiastic about it, which makes me want to do it for him. He gives very specific instructions, so that I know I'm doing what he wants. He was very gentle with teaching me how he liked it at first. He views it as a whole sex act, not just foreplay. He doesn't just lie back and take it, he gets involved. He'll put his hand in my hair or play with my breasts. Since we're into kink, he ties me up sometimes. These things make it so much more enjoyable for both of us.
Also, for the jaw hurting thing - give it a rest. When I need a break, I'll lick the shaft, pay some attention to just the head or his balls. Let yourself breath.
Out of the three people I've given head to, there was only one I enjoyed doing it for. Two of them never orgasmed from oral sex and had to finish up another way. They liked it, but viewed it more as foreplay than real sex. And I knew that it wasn't doing a whole lot for them, so I didn't see why I should be putting in all that effort.
The person who made giving head enjoyable for me was someone who really really likes getting head. He's super enthusiastic about it, which makes me want to do it for him. He gives very specific instructions, so that I know I'm doing what he wants. He was very gentle with teaching me how he liked it at first. He views it as a whole sex act, not just foreplay. He doesn't just lie back and take it, he gets involved. He'll put his hand in my hair or play with my breasts. Since we're into kink, he ties me up sometimes. These things make it so much more enjoyable for both of us.
Also, for the jaw hurting thing - give it a rest. When I need a break, I'll lick the shaft, pay some attention to just the head or his balls. Let yourself breath.
12/15/2011
Two more things:
1. Put on music. I get bored too. That helps.
2. Agreeing with JR. Talk to your partner about it. And maybe you could make it a give-and-take. However long you spend giving him oral sex, he has to give you oral sex for the same amount of time. Or do something for you that you really enjoy and that shows how much he appreciates it.
1. Put on music. I get bored too. That helps.
2. Agreeing with JR. Talk to your partner about it. And maybe you could make it a give-and-take. However long you spend giving him oral sex, he has to give you oral sex for the same amount of time. Or do something for you that you really enjoy and that shows how much he appreciates it.
12/15/2011
Wish I could help
12/17/2011
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