Can you GIVE without RECEIVING?

Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Can you just be on the giving end of foreplay without receiving from your partner, and still be ready to go? Often, I am able to be completely giving without taking, I'm ready to go by just feeling my partner get turned on!
01/21/2013
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shnsmth6 shnsmth6
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Can you just be on the giving end of foreplay without receiving from your partner, and still be ready to go? Often, I am able to be completely giving without taking, I'm ready to go by just feeling my partner get turned on!
yes, not an issue for us
01/22/2013
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
Yes, and often do. However, if I'm feeling sort of moody, it annoys me.
01/22/2013
Dustin LaBorde Dustin LaBorde
yes
01/22/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
yes
01/22/2013
Jennifer87 Jennifer87
Yes I give most if the time ad by time things are heated up, I don't need any to get me going
01/22/2013
LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Can you just be on the giving end of foreplay without receiving from your partner, and still be ready to go? Often, I am able to be completely giving without taking, I'm ready to go by just feeling my partner get turned on!
Same here. I love giving my husband pleasure. Nothing turns me on more!
01/22/2013
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I don't mind giving and not receiving at all. I can finish myself off if needed
01/22/2013
xxSuzakuxx xxSuzakuxx
Yes i can give and be ready to go
01/25/2013
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
I will usually 70% of the time be on the giving end of foreplay as she enjoys it. Getting her warmed up gets me excited and I'm fine with doing that for her.
01/29/2013
novanilla novanilla
Depends on my mood, but sometimes that's what turns me on more and I can still orgasm just as quickly. Other times, I need to receive more. We just communicate with each other about what we need.
01/29/2013
1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
Yeah, just depends on what I am in the mood to do. I have no problem with giving a partner all the pleasure, as I sometimes like it done to me.
02/11/2013
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Can you just be on the giving end of foreplay without receiving from your partner, and still be ready to go? Often, I am able to be completely giving without taking, I'm ready to go by just feeling my partner get turned on!
Yes! I'm a giver much more than a taker.
02/15/2013
Eugler Eugler
Yes, I love giving. I think it's somehow more satisifying than taking. Sometimes.
02/15/2013
Getalife7 Getalife7
I like giving, but we've fallen into a rut where I never receive. So that's causing me to lose a lot of desire for sex.
02/22/2013
lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Can you just be on the giving end of foreplay without receiving from your partner, and still be ready to go? Often, I am able to be completely giving without taking, I'm ready to go by just feeling my partner get turned on!
it depends for me and how horny i am
02/22/2013
DigitalSweety DigitalSweety
Depends on what mood I'm in, and my partner's track record. If they expect me to give almost all of the time and I rarely get anything in return, I'm gradually going to get unhappy about it. If it's a once-in-a-while thing and I'm turned on, that's different.
02/27/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
It's good to give, though I prefer mutual enjoyment (as does my girlfriend)
02/28/2013
FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
Yes, I can.
02/28/2013
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Can you just be on the giving end of foreplay without receiving from your partner, and still be ready to go? Often, I am able to be completely giving without taking, I'm ready to go by just feeling my partner get turned on!
Of course I can
02/28/2013
MrWill MrWill
I can.. when I have a partner. If not, I give and receive at the same time hahahaha
03/01/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
Yes and often do.
03/19/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Yes, but it can be frustrating at times because of how often it happens.
03/19/2013
never shy never shy
Yes but usually he can't keep his hands Off me
03/19/2013
meitman meitman
Definitely.
03/19/2013
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
Yes, I love to hit and run when waking up. Leave her randy all day until time for bed. She can also since she knows she got me aroused.
04/14/2013
MattBryant MattBryant
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Can you just be on the giving end of foreplay without receiving from your partner, and still be ready to go? Often, I am able to be completely giving without taking, I'm ready to go by just feeling my partner get turned on!
sometimes but its harder (pun not intended) to be fully into it unless its been a while since the last time.
04/19/2013
Silverwinds Silverwinds
I can easily, but Icy prefers to be the one giving more. He loves seeing me all hot and bothered xD
04/19/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I love to give...but so does he, so we never end up with just one person as the receiver.
04/19/2013
P'Gell P'Gell
I'll happily give a blow job from start to finish without wanting anything for myself (did that this morning as a matter of fact) but if we're having a session, I do want oral sex. I don't break sex up into "foreplay" and "the big event" as PIV isn't, for us, the end all and be all of sex. But, if it's more than me just giving him oral because he wants some, and we're not going to do anything else, I'm fine with it.

I have to have oral sex in order to have an orgasm (or a strong vibrator) so we always trade off oral for most of our sex time. Sometimes we don't even get around to PIV.
04/19/2013
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